I don't know where to start, but this is my true story
I started by loving myself, I used to think that not letting others bring me down and hurt me meant that I loved and appreciated myself, but I was wrong, one thing I missed was myself...
It's a bit strange, but for those of you who have whispered the same as me, maybe my story can help you find the diamond nugget that is in you, because we are all valuable and deserve to be happy.
Btw what I missed earlier, yes, it's true that I passed myself, without realizing that the person who hurt me was myself, I didn't really care about what I was wearing, I didn't take care of my skin, I even forgot to take care of my diet, and without realizing it all of that had a big impact on my life, in 2015 I had a breakout that was severe enough to leave scars until now. Shame, disappointment and fear of not being accepted well in the environment made me become more withdrawn, I did not dare to look at other people and did not like it when other people, especially a man, looked at me, crying and locking myself in my room became my new hobby at that time.
I started trying various things, such as not leaving the house so I wouldn't be exposed to dust and started to try home treatments and consuming collagen drinks as well, but the pimples still spoiled themselves on my face, so it didn't fully work and what was worse was the acne scars which were very difficult to remove.
In the end, I chose to let go and started not to worry about anything, learned to respect and love myself, maybe there are many things that cannot be changed, but we can accept those shortcomings and see more of the strengths of others. After starting to accept myself, miracles began to come. dieting is not to have an ideal body shape but to maintain health, not taking care of yourself to look beautiful but to be happier, no longer wearing good clothes to look nice but to enjoy and respect self, and many other things that change when you start to fall in love, so don't choose the wrong person for you to love, try to start by falling in love with yourself first because no one knows you are better than yourself, and I experienced this myself.
Don't forget to keep learning and falling in love with yourself, if sometimes it's too hard to live alone, then go out and meet your sincere friends and the house where you charge your energy, there will be someone like that for you. So don't worry and stay happy...
Falling in love with yourself is the first secret of happiness ~Robert M.