Anyone else have friends who seem to fall off the grid when you or your loved one are expecting? I can't tell if this happens out of jealousy or because they are spiteful about not being able to have kids due to society's outlook on their race or religion..
Like seriously... We used to be best friends.., and the moment I caught her lying to me about something she said my hormones were making me paranoid and she stopped talking to me.. and then I found her doing the exact thing she told me she wasn't doing.
Not only that, but she is going around telling people I got pregnant just to spite her? Lol ooookaaaay lady calm down lol no one would take 9 months out of their life just to spite you. Some people need to calm down and accept that life isn't built all around them.
Has anyone here had any similar experiences? How did you handle it? Does anyone else feel shamed when they choose to have a family because of race, spiritual beliefs or political beliefs by friends or family? What are your thoughts? This is an interactive twitter post. The screenshot is actually from my twitter page. Follow the link below.
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Thats the most ridiculous thing ive ever heard in my life! Im so sick of people judging people on the color of their skin. People should be judged on their actions! In regards to people MIA. Yeah my wife's friend stopped coming around because now that my wife's kids our number one she went elsewhere to use somebody else. I say good riddance!
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It's just sad to lose friends over stupid shit like this.. She straight up asked me "Don't you feel bad for bringing white children into this world where white people are bad?" it was the dumbest thing I have ever been asked by someone else who is also white.. Like really white.. She is Irish and sone other things, but her skin tone could match printer paper if she stayed out of the sun, and I think she is absolutely beautiful, but she has low self esteem because of the people in her life telling her that white people are bad and that she should be ashamed of being white and blah, blah, blah.. This whole race thing has gotten out of control to the point where I was being called racist for marrying my Irish husband and having his kids.. I am proud of my children and the only reason I use the (whitewoman) and (whitekids) hashtags in photos is because I want other people to know that it is okay to be proud of your heritage no matter where it comes from. Your heritage makes up your DNA and makes you unique and beautiful in your own way. People need to stop culture shaming lol
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wow! Where are you living at? And yeah it seems like its becoming the "cool" thing to do. At least thats a very small percentage of people thinking that way. Or at least I hope.
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I live in the U.S. I am not saying people shouldn't use birth control, I am saying people who educate about birth control need to be more careful about how the present their slogan... "You can have as much sex as you want with whoever you want with a condom." is how majority of my generation ended up getting pregnant and having to raise kids on their own 😞 .
Something needs to be done about the way people teach sex ed and health class to teens, because of how popular the casual sex scene has become and how easy it is with apps like Tinder 😰
There is virtually no more dating for the sake of companionship these days and it is causing the casual sex lovers to shame people who just want to raise a family and live a happy life. I have noticed this in Minnesota AND in Colorado.. More so in Minnesota, because up here the doctors apparently are above the law.
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In Minnesota you can't say anything about history because you might offend someone, and when you talk about getting married to someone you care about and they just happen to be white or the same race as you and you aren't black, you become racist just for talking about life essentially. It is part of the reason we are looking to relocate.
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Those people are very misguided, and really need to do some soul searching. They need to get out of that MTV funk.
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Lol! I couldn't agree more! It seems like the world kinda went to trash right about the time MTV became popular.
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Or maybe when MTV stoped playing music. Lol
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You mean good music... They still play "music" but I consider it trash lol
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