We humans easily ruin our lives, it is something we do without a drive and without our knowledge. The ecosystem we live in is huge and are often judgemental. We Cant live with them and we cant live without them. It is a very uncomfortable situation in life when we have to decide between what we choose. Weather we choose to neglect our life over what people think of us or we choose life over others.
" What does the society think", even this we have to think, why??
Are we that jobless in life and we have no right purpose in life to be pondering over such thoughts??
Society out there is there to be judgemental and opinionated. Do not bother about such minute things in life instead focus n life in itself.
Life is very short, we hardly have 50-70 years with us, but we think we have more and some of us think we have forever to live here.
In this short time do you want to live pleasing society or you want to just live?
You die and that's inevitable, when its time for us to go we have to go!!
People forget you, that's also a fact. You are only remembered only till your existence, but few are remembered forever not because they pleased others but they lived their lives o do something better for humanity.
It is easy to forget you after your death, and you are most often forgotten very quickly, The intention is not to tell you to stop caring for others but to tell you to care only as much as required. Do not go out of your way in life to please people. People who matter to you and to whom you matter does not expect attention, they know you are there for them.
Hopefully I made some sense??
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The goal is not to stop caring about others but to make sure you care about yourself. Enjoy life, try to stress less, and try to leave the world a happier place than it was before you wandered through.
Awesome post!
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Exactly !!
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Some great things to motivate by.
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we spend most of our lives trying to please people and live our lives based on what they think, this limit us to be who we are supposed to be, the world owes us nothing so live to the fullest and enjoy every moment that you have
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And we owe nothing to the world, so we should not feel obligated to please anyone
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this touches me a lot.
I believe no one of us will forget his mom or dad if they die.
anyway we are all victims of the same Idea... If we completely forgot about the ones who died. I am sure everyone alive will forget about us after we die.
But It is hard to forget about someone who was good with everyone and always does what makes people happy in his life and fights for their dignity Like: , Jesus, Mohammed, Nilson Mandilla, che guevara and so on and so far.
We just have to be as good as society wants us to and as helpful as possible, so we will die in Peace and people will just send us their prayers and blessings.
Thanks for the post
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Thank you for the most meaningful comment
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I think there is a saying "try to please everyone and you pleases no one". I believed this saying, resonates quite well with your post. Your better off ignoring what others think of you, and just live your life the way you want. Thanks for the thought inducing post. Have a nice day.
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You too, have a nice day
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How Sweet
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If you don’t care about others , you can be free.
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steemit is here to assist us, the death is died and gone so the bible says let the death bury the death but we that we have life we should focus that is all
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this is a great words that people need to know n follow... just to be wise in life...
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So true. The people who stick around when you go off the rails (aka leave the world's ways) are the one's that are the keepers. When I dropped out of med school and took a full 180, I experienced a lot of this. Through this process I also realized how constricted I had become due to following the opinion of others and trying to please them. Once I stopped doing that I found true happiness.
Great post @voiceshares! I'd love to hear your thoughts about my recent post: How To Fuel Flirtation And Ignite Irresistible Interactions
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Wow!! That's a nice comment to see on the post, thank you for commenting
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Sir what a nice post as it was my first week the post I am getting in steemit are so informative and useful than other social media thank you @voiceshares awesome post .,...Glad to follow and commented on your post
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@voiceshares Thank you for your thoughts about that. But I can tell you why we bother what others think about us.
We all have the need to preserve and improve our self-esteem and one part of doing this, is to obtain appreciation from others.
I wrote an article about this topic. I think it fits your topic as well https://steemit.com/psychology/@liveyourdream/how-to-preserve-self-esteem-and-improve-communication
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Wow very beautiful and real post. I am completely agree, yes life is one time offer, so don't waste your precious time by thinking what others say or what society thinks. Live life with your beloved ones and love them as if you Will die tomorrow. Thanks for sharing.
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Pleasure is all mine, thank you :)
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Lived live to do something better for humanity. So, you could be remembered forever.
Such a heartwarming advice. Thank you.
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So true. We try to live by others' rules, try to please everyone around us and, in fact, we end up being frustrated and have resentments for others around us. What if we live our lives by our choises, not others' and grow our souls in harmony, self-love, self-respect and self care? I truly believe that if we love ourselves we become happy and we can spread happiness around us.
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