The basis for everything wrong in society is selfishness which is antithetical to true love. Love nurtures, but a child raised without love will be caught in selfishness and be incapable of loving. "We love because He first loved us." Christians speak of love, but during the last year, I have questioned every believer, pastor, evangelist, layman, and none could tell me what the 3rd commandment of the New Testament is. This is a serious indictment. They take it so lightly yet they parrot empty phrases like "Just call on the name of the Lord and be saved." Jesus refuted that, saying "Not he who cries unto Me Lord, Lord, shall be saved, but he who does the will of the Father." Jesus told us to "Be perfect as your Father in Heaven, " and the only perfection He could be referring to would be perfection of love. He exhibited that love and set the standard. I welcome anyone who might tell me about that 3rd, so essential, commandment.