I want to start by saying good morning to all steemians ,happy new week, new season ,ember quarter and period. It shall always be well with us in God almighty,amen.
This is madefaxs world as you all know. As i have spent some little but experience filled life on earth. In the past years of my life ,the fact that i was born into a polygamous setting of family, which i believe till today that its one of the most dangerous institution any man can establish, killing and destroying the destinies of any child or children in such horrible setting.
This polygamous family settings is a place where a man marries two wives or more. And this is where each wife of the so-called husband wants to protect their children individually! Especially in a place like Nigeria as part of the african continent i hail from, such women believes in some things for sure protection which are, prayers either in a christian way or the islamic way, while some believes in the black fetish powers to protect and fight for what they see as their rights, thereby having the mindset of destroying a party in other for the other party to maintain peace.
At times the husband and father of the house is the victim incase he's rich ,so the wives pretend as if they are in good terms to deceive the husband ,just to achieve gaining full access to his wealth for themselves and their children. What a life!
But mostly so unfortunate that the innocent children remains the greatest enemy that suffers the menace and adverse effects in the process of those mothers trying to fight for their children.
So children in such settings suffers mostly both spiritual and physical attacks, while some even loose their lives in the process. It is such a pity for children that finds themselves in such ugly settings and situations. Am a product of one.
Children like that at times loose their mother and start struggling to live and survive, which is always a thug of war to scale through. Only for God's intervention in most cases.
Imagine yourself in my shoes! It has now taken another turn and shocking occurence that leads to bitter life experince. I have earlier in life lost my own mother from the race of polygamy, lost my father and now the ugliest. Suspense? No.....
After my survival without parents ,i got married barely six years ago ,favoured with a beautiful and mannered wife, and blessed with two handsome boys ! What a lovely and happy family. Even though we didn't have much ,but we are very happy no doubt, but guess what! I lost my wife again two months ago, diagnosed medically of breast cancer, and also suffers lots of spiritual attacks, even on people trying to help and revive her. See what life has taught me in short space of time ,leaving me with many sorrows. It has been God ever since to lonely take care of two kids without a woman called mummy? ,sympatisers will come and in the process of trying to comfort you will utter wrong statements like ' I UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH' , Are you sure is my question to them ever, because they don't.
Experience they say is the best teacher! Does that mean all should share the experience before they learn? ,You, i mean you yet without this ugly experience should rather pray never to experience such, but you can actually learn from other peoples experience.
Thanks for been part of my true life story about polygamy as an internal warfare that always leads to ugly life experience.
Am sure you have gained alot here today,stay blessed from now till we meet again,am your steemit friend and mentor madefax007, as i say thanks for visiting my blog .