The wedding is a turning point in the life of any young couple. We prepare to this moment for the whole life. Often, we know in details how our wedding ceremony should look like already in adolescence, especially if speaking about the girls. When this day cherished day comes, we have the only desire – to make it as much alike to our dreams as possible. Indeed, there is a big question whether doing this through your wedding planners can bring desired outcomes. You should know the things about which your wedding assistant will never tell you to be closer to making your dream the exciting reality of wedding moment.
Here they are:
Your emotions are not a strict instruction
Remember somebody of your friend telling you about planning the wedding ceremony. We bet, you not once have heard something like this ‘I do not know what the thing should be for our first dance, but it is exactly should be something mega special !!!’. The brides are guided by emotions, happiness and perceived an individual sense of ‘specialty’. If you succeed to hire over responsible and individually-oriented planner, he or she will ask you about your music associations and life experience, special moments of your life story. The ordinary planner will offer you the list of the most popular songs their clients choose traditionally.What is unique for you, not always is the same for your planner.
From the previous point, you should guess, what we mean here. The majority of original decisions you will be offered is just the best choice of the previous number of couples, and it is not excluded that the couple who have the ceremony in one day and one place with yours (Such probability is rather low, but possible). We call such advises wholesale diamonds
Not only pieces of advice have the nature of wholesale
To organize your wedding day you need the multiple specialists – florists, designers, musicians, catering company, etc. If you guess these people or companies work especially for you-you are wrong. These services your planner also buy together in one package. What do we mean? Each agency has the worked out list of specialists with whom they work constantly – it is the widespread practice in any business.Buying wholesale does not mean a lower price.
It sounds like nonsense on the market language, but it is the primary wedding rule. Although your planner has the system of bonuses and economically profitable offers from the specialists you will never know this. This is silent information. Moreover, many propositions will be presented to you as exclusive and thus a rather expensive.Professionals sometimes are not so professional as the planner says
Attempts to help the closest people and friends is one of the major element of human nature. Wedding planners are not exclusions from this rule. They have multiple interpersonal relations with people specialized in photography, trade, designing etc. If they want to help in developing somebody’s start-up, you will be never said that the person offered to you is just newcomer. You will never hear “this photographer has never made the wedding photo session but he is a good guy’. It is not always bad, indeed be attentive, check the professional experience of the professional offered by the wedding planners.Your original wedding idea can be borrowed
We mentioned above that the list of planner’s advice is the best of the best previous ideas. Be ready that your exciting and unique wedding decisions start traveling from one wedding ceremony to another. It may seem not a tragedy until the moment you will meet the bride with the same wedding look just in the wedding day in the wardrobe room of your wedding agency.
You are not a single client
The brides strive to get the whole attention of the planner, indeed it is unlikely to be so. As a rule, your planner is organizing a few wedding ceremonies simultaneously. You see now the true risk of exchanging wedding ideas! Be attentive.The best decision is not the best, but the most comfortable
What is presented to you as the best wedding decision sometimes is just the most comfortable, profitable or easy to implement for your planner. Consider this issue since you could be offered to use the foam for your wedding dress like the latest trend when the lace is truly trendy in your wedding season. The reason can be a single – the planner’s supplier has no foam at this moment. This rule works in the same way in any area of the organizing process.Many unified decisions are not discussed
Each planner knows the order of holding ceremony as nobody else. They present themselves in such a way and the couple tends to believe in this. However, there can be multiple nuances. For example, planning the sits for the guests in the majority cases is ordinary – relatives close each to others, couples together, youth area, etc. Indeed, for sure in your family, there are relatives who could not find the common language during the number of years, the couples who have the same surname but do not live together anymore. Sitting them side by side or will create unnecessary tension for the others and for them as well.Nobody knows better than you do
The less nuanced your participation in the planner’s work, the best this situation is for your planner. Your assistants will never tell you that you know best something, but you should be assured that it is a single truth for your wedding day. You, wedding couple, know all about your wedding. Even you are told that something is not appropriate, not trendy, not suitable or difficult to implement – you have to save your stand. It is your day, it is not a time for compromises!!