-转念-

in wherein •  5 years ago 

-转念-

什么是转念？改变心态，转移视角，去看待一件事。

这个词我在高中毕业后去打工时，经常听到我的同事说的。

“要学会转念呀！”

我这个人是这样的，悲观多过乐观，经常为一件事情想很多，想最多的是这件事情最坏的结果/打算。我是大概青春期快要结束后，我才发现这个是个不太好的习惯。但是我想改也难。

首先，很难让自己乐观起来。是有试过几次，强迫自己乐观。但是总觉得，恩，怪怪的。逼自己做自己不常做的事情，感觉自己都不像自己了。

但是有些事情，没尝试怎么知道行不通？所以啊，后来就慢慢克制自己容易慌张、悲观的心态。

比如不去想太多最坏的结果，只管做。就算结局不太好，也学会去从中寻找让人值得欣慰的事情。比如交到朋友、学习了新事情…这些事情都是值得欣慰的对吧。

那昨天发生了几件事，让我心情起伏有点像过山车一样。

昨天说了自己实习有着落了，然后下午做功课的时候突然收到校方的通知，我明年大四住不了宿舍了。

我们国立大学的宿舍很难住到，需要靠参加宿舍活动来凑分数，分数达标了才有明年继续入住的资格。当然分数达标了，还得靠筛选…

我从大一努力到大三，除了学习还要参加宿舍活动…日子有时候过得苦不堪言，但是值得欣慰的是这些活动让我和小伙伴的羁绊越来越强。

昨天还为实习感到开心，然后又为了没得入住宿舍感到担忧。国立大学的宿舍费用很便宜，而且靠近学院，走10分钟就可以到学校了。

住外面的话，住宿费至少贵1、2倍，而且没有交通，上学挺麻烦的。我又是个外地生，人生地不熟，还没有车子（这里公共交通不太方便），难搞哦。

或许就只能天天搭grab（类似中国的滴滴）上学，不过费用会很高…啊…（躺在自己的泪泊中）

觉得不甘，努力没有回报。觉得担忧，生活处处需要钱。觉得不安，又要在新的环境中从新开始。

不过……至少还有3个小伙伴和我一起住不到😂🙊所以我们应该会自己去找房子吧…

我的室友和我说，我们要转念，你看我们毕业前还可以住在一起呢！一起生活，一起做饭吃，一起学习…

也对，在学校宿舍里不能做饭，在外面就可以做饭了…住外面会有很多自由，可能不是那么糟糕的一件事。

要转念啊，要随遇而安，这样日子可能会好过一些。

（最后附上一张去年在宿舍庆祝圣诞节的照片）

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      ·  5 years ago 

    嗯，四个美女能够同住在一个屋檐下 - 这已经是最好的安排了~

    好好珍惜这得来不易的缘分吧，小雨 :)

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        ·  5 years ago 

      ʕ•̀ω•́ʔ✧恩恩，珍惜最后的几个月，最近没得看到她们，很是想念

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          ·  5 years ago 

        这也是一种锻炼

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            ·  5 years ago 

          又是你！！到处都是你！

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              ·  5 years ago 

            你们俩要吵架了吗😂

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                ·  5 years ago 

              恩是呀…提前锻炼一下，毕业出去工作也是要一个人住，到时候也要考虑更多事情

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                  ·  5 years ago 

                还有单身的吗？( •́ὤ•̀)我酸了

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                    ·  5 years ago 

                  你最近吃了什么，天天酸

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                      ·  5 years ago 

                    吃柠檬了😂

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                        ·  5 years ago 

                      四个都单，有没有好男生介绍一下😂😅

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                          ·  5 years ago 

                        学会了一个新词，其实想坏方面不是坏事，做好打算和心理准备，心态保持积极乐观，好的方面也想，你觉得呢

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                            ·  5 years ago 

                          想太多坏的打算也没用，或许不会发生🙊😂积极点、乐观点比较好

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                              ·  5 years ago 

                            适当可以的，当然胡思乱想的不可取

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                                ·  5 years ago 

                              四個都單身，哥已婚，抱歉，最優秀的男生從市場下架了

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                                  ·  5 years ago 

                                🙊🙊🙊叫一些优秀的男生上架

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                                    ·  5 years ago 

                                  😂😂😂😂

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                                      ·  5 years ago 

                                    如果几个人合租，租金就便宜多了，而且每天组团一起上下学感觉也不错。别灰心，方法总比困难多。

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                                        ·  5 years ago 

                                      嗯，有几个伴一起分担•̀.̫•́✧

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                                          ·  5 years ago 

                                        三个猫头，一个狗头 😀

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                                            ·  5 years ago 

                                          猜猜我是哪个🙊

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                                              ·  5 years ago 

                                            思维的转变好难哦！

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                                                ·  5 years ago 

                                              好熟悉的照片😄哈哈哈哈(ಡωಡ)hiahiahia

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                                                  ·  5 years ago 

                                                你是从几时开始监视我的？可怕😨

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                                                      ·  5 years ago 

                                                    保持乐观态度是对的，找到新房子就既来之则安之

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