Marriage vs ChildCare Centres

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Marriage vs Childcare Centre

之前，和一位單身的朋友聊天，
（或許，我訴苦抱怨了一陣子...）
突然我被問到：為什麼不把孩子送去托兒所，然後去工作，不就解決問題了嗎……？

我想了想，問她：為什麼你不結婚？

我沒有等她回答，就自己分析了：

我能想到的理由大致有幾個，
第一點，
其中有些人找不到合適的對象。
這是最普遍的問題，對吧？
那我不送托兒所的理由也一樣，
我找不到合適的托兒所。

第二點，
有些人找不到可以信任/托付終身的對象。
那我也一樣，找不到可以信任的托兒所。

接著，第三點，
朋友就說：哎呀，很多人都是這樣的，
孩子放托兒所，然後去上班。
我說：那也很多人結婚，你也一定可以結婚。😅

第四，
朋友不放棄，繼續說：放心啦！沒有事的！
隨便一點，不要太執著。
我說：那你也放心結婚去，隨便挑一個，
不要太執著完美。🤪

第五點，
朋友無奈地說：那你不要一直抱怨辛苦...
我說：你選擇單身可以抱怨寂寞，
我選擇自己顧孩子，
辛苦的時候可以抱怨一下嗎？

放心，我們沒有吵架，
已經是幾十年的老朋友了……
我們常常這樣鬥嘴鬧著玩，
這樣的辯論，
能讓大家真正瞭解對方的真實情況，
而促進彼此更深一層的包容！
感謝朋友常常訊息關心我！
我很感謝她，我們也互相鼓勵打氣。

最後，
請問各位為什麼我的孩子那麼愛哭啊？？
Why why why?


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