can sex be everything in life?
I learned that being with a man who is good at it but worse in other duties is so confusing”Gentlemen,its life a car without engine, this is where we go wrong. To many men, they think the biggest pick up line to a woman is “Hey, I have a nine inch penis and it can sex you good. I can drive you crazy,thats really wrong, In fact, some men even send pictures of their erected penis to various women (even strangers) on social media inbox, hoping that she would be so impressed and want nothing but his penis.
A grown woman who is serious about love is not interested in a man who sells lust, lust is for just few moment,once lust is satisfied you will not see the person again,he got what he wanted, Lust doesn’t last, she wants something long-term. She wants love beyond the penis and vagina.
Even in marriage, many men have been accused of thinking only about sex, or being good to their wives only when sex is the agenda. During the act of sex, many women complain that men tend to think only about themselves. well sex is sweet and good,but its not everything.
Look at even when men talk, they mock each other’s penis size and design as if the characteristics of a penis determines the value of a man.
Don’t get me wrong
it is not that women don’t have sexual needs or don’t desire great love making; they do, but they want more than an orgasm. everyone loves to have the best,Every woman would want a marriage with a great sex life, but also a marriage that has substance.
Couple sleeping in bed
Women want a man who sees sex as just a small fraction of the equation of love and marriage, dont take me wrong , imagine a good love making without being responsible and taking charge of what the man should do,How long does a sex episode take? Five minutes, ten, twenty, thirty? No matter how long, even for the most loving married couples, sex doesn’t happen each and every day; that’s how small a part sex is in marriage. That is why a couple can have great sex but the woman still doesn’t feel loved, love is from inside and it does not fade out.
A grown woman wants a husband who will take time to know more than just her vagina, yes that’s how it is, she wants a man who will mind her mind, search her soul, explore her heart and take care of her emotions, mmmh yes, She wants to be married to her best friend, not just a man with a horny penis. She wants intimate conversations, a man who hungers for depth, even as he longs for her body. Sex is easy to get, it just needs two horny people with sexual organs; but intimacy and love is rare, a blessing and takes time to cultivate.
All those hours you are spending watching porn, use that time instead to study your woman. Porn only teaches you how to enter a vagina through different angles and styles; but you need to learn how to enter her dreams so that you see her future,this is where many men make mistakes,thinking that sex is all that woman wants and nothing more , how to enter her heart so that you see how loving she is, how to enter her mind so that you see how wise she is,how to enter her soul and you will see her core. Missionary, doggystyle, 69; know more than sex positions, position yourself to know her. know your woman and bring her to that place that she feels loved and comfortable.
Make her feel loved, cared for, understood and looked after and the sex in your marriage will automatically be passionate because women make love with their heart, she is fragile she wants that love deeply.
Be one with her and that means more than sexual. I demonstrated in action the inner desire for people in this sexualized generation to have a bond that is more than having sexual desire over her. Whether you are a single man, a man dating a woman or a married man, if you can have a good and memorable time with that special woman and sex is not the agenda or the goal, then you are a man of depth and you really care for her. You are a keeper! Keep loving her.
It’s more than that horny organ between your legs.
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