至理名言：当你弱的时候，身边小人最多；当你强的时候，身边好人最多。
人之所以为人，生于世，行走于社会，无外乎于“名”或“利”。真正能做到淡泊名利者，又有几人乎？
不论是为“名”，还是“利”，必定会存在你争我抢，尔虞我诈。
在这种环境之下，当你各方面都比较弱势的时候，你会发现，无论你做什么，都好像不对，即使你是对的，别人也会反杀过来或倒打一耙。
比如，明明有时别人侵害了你的利益，你去维护自己的利益，别人反而会说你小气，没有肚量。这真是猪八戒倒打一耙！
此时，你若忍让，别人会认为你胆小怕事，是个软骨头；若你与别人要争，别人会觉得你争强好斗，不是个好东西。
总之，当你在名利场上一样不占的时候，你做什么都是错的，身边总是充斥着很多坏人。
当你很幸运上岸了，你会发现，你不管是说什么，做什么，好像都对了。
即使你很小气，很斤斤计较，人家也会认为你神圣不可侵犯，是个有个性的人。
比如，你的大BOSS在饭桌上狼吞虎咽，吃相不雅，别人会说，这人能成功，就是因为不拘小节，不被世俗的规矩束缚，才能脱颖而出。
若把你的大BOSS换成一个无名小卒，在饭桌上狼吞虎咽，吃相难看，别人绝对会说，这人一辈子就这样了，你看他哪个吃相，真的是没见过世面。
总之，人活一辈子，若还是个社会人，就好好为自己争取一把。你站在山脚看风景和你站在山顶看风景，绝对是两种不同的效果。
我是@职同心合 ，若想让自己身边的好人多一些，还是加把劲，让自己变的更加优秀吧。
The most logical saying: When you are weak, there are most villains around; when you are strong, there are most good people around.
The reason why a person is a person, born in the world, and walks in the society is nothing more than "name" or "profit." How many people can truly be indifferent to fame and fortune?
Whether it is for "famous" or "profit", there will definitely be people fighting for grabs and intrigues.
In this environment, when you are weak in all aspects, you will find that no matter what you do, it does not seem to be right. Even if you are right, others will kill them or beat them upside down.
For example, it is clear that sometimes others infringe on your interests, and if you try to protect your own interests, others will say that you are stingy and not capable. This is really a pig!
At this time, if you give in, others will think you are timid and fearful, and you are a bonehead; if you are fighting with others, others will think that you are strong and combative, which is not a good thing.
In short, when you do not occupy the same amount of money in Vanity Fair, everything you do is wrong, and there are always a lot of bad guys around you.
When you are lucky to go ashore, you will find that whatever you say or do, it seems to be right.
Even if you are stingy and caressing, people will think you are sacred and inviolable and a person with personality.
For example, if your big boss devours at the dinner table and eats indecently, others will say that this person can succeed only because he is not obsessed with the trivial and is not bound by worldly rules to stand out.
If you replace your big boss with a nameless guy and gobble it up at the dinner table and eat ugly, others will definitely say that this person has been like this for a lifetime. Look at his eating style, he really has never seen the world.
In short, if a person lives for a lifetime, if he is still a social person, he will fight for himself. You stand at the foot of a mountain to see the scenery and you stand at the top of the mountain to see the scenery, there are definitely two different effects.
I am @职同心合. If you want to have more good people around you, you should work harder to make yourself better.