Love between women has been a taboo for a long time and has given way to generate a series of fantasies and stereotypes on the subject. making love women
Today it is now known how two women make love, but the argument continues to be mythologized, and to believe in a series of false myths, which generalize the sexual relationship between two women.
Let's try to dispel some myths ...
- Sexual intercourse is based only on "touching"
It's not true.
The relationship between two women also includes masturbation, but there can also be penetration of any "kind".
You can use it gently (or not) your fingers, hand, tongue or with objects such as wearable dildos or sex toys.
Surely rubbing and touch are of great importance, since foreplay, pampering, in the absence of penetration anxiety, are the basis for exploration and a great source of pleasure.
- Sex toys are needed or they do not feel pleasure
The same is true that in straight intercourse, they are used at the discretion of the pleasure of the two lovers.
The pleasure, attraction, desire and sexual intercourse are consumed anyway, even without the use of an object. The choice to use it remains a choice as in all types of relationships.
- There must necessarily be someone who personifies man
Not at all true.
Unless you want to undertake a role-playing game, one of the two does not necessarily have to be the man of the situation.
To be a man, one must be a man. Love between two women is a relationship between two women and, like all relationships, it is conditioned by attraction, by the fantasies of the two people.
There are those above and those below, those who shout and those who scratch, those who are silent, those who graze and those who tear apart. It depends on the two women in question, on attraction and love.
- Two women reach orgasm more easily
It is not easier, it is not more difficult.
Let's say that the achievement of female orgasm is not necessarily determined by penetration.
So it would be foolish to think that, without a man, the relationship does not come to an end, especially if we think that many straight women, despite being penetrated, do not reach orgasm.
At the same time, it is not said that between two women (or with a man) orgasm must always be achieved, everything is never so simple.
Pleasure is an intimate and personal discourse, and people, especially women, are not all the same: each person is a world unto himself.
In all relationships, being able to make the partner feel pleasure is a search, a stripping, the creation of an understanding and the realization of a dance of pleasure for two, which is exciting and complicated, regardless of gender and sexual orientation.
- If a woman makes love to another she is a lesbian
Do 80% of women have homosexual fantasies? And listen listen they are not lesbians !!!
Love and sexuality are something intimate and private. You can have an affair with a woman, but decide you want to be with men.
There are experiences, choices and the possibility of experiencing sexuality at 100% without necessarily having to close ourselves in a definition and if we feel that we do not belong to that given pattern.
The most beautiful sexuality is the free one, the spontaneous one, the one where we can really be ourselves.