Reflection in the mirror

In our walk through life we ​​have the privilege of sharing with many people who would like to change certain attitudes, and by not achieving this it is necessary to assume that the challenge is to accept them and work to restore the balance between our way of life based on change and progress. , and the way we think they carry it, sometimes it is hard for us to accept others for what they are, since their way of thinking and reacting will never match our expectations. When we do a favor to a person, it hurts us if we do not get the same treatment from them when we need it, this being the starting point of most interpersonal conflicts. By waiting for others to behave in a certain way we are denying them the right to their identity. In addition, to get upset by these differences we ignore something very important: being or acting differently from us does not have to be negative. Fortunately, each person has a unique combination of defects and virtues. We can accept his uniqueness and take advantage of the good things he offers us or else fall into offensive criticisms that are not good, to accept and recognize the value of the people that surround our environment, is to love our circumstances to improve them from that point of view. departure. Any anger that we have with others is, in the end, the mirror of something of ourselves that bothers us. That is why we would like to change them, because it is easier to demand the transformation of the other than that of oneself. A constructive relationship with our environment will take us to a higher plane of mutual understanding and happiness. Reality puts us to the test and we are often exposed to unwanted circumstances. Instead of complaining about the attitudes of people, we can ask ourselves what we can do to restore balance in our lives, however, it is necessary to accept things as we have lived them, as they are a challenge and a learning. At the same time, instead of looking for guilty, we must accept others and not look at their negative things, but in the positive things that are sure to be many and the others to leave to God who is the one who transforms enjoy the good things of the people who surround us and understand that those who bother us is what we do not want to see about ourselves and God is confronting us with them to be better people every day.
DRM