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Love is a vital aspect of life and each man is subject to it. Love is defined as a feeling of strong or constant affection for a person. One individual once said, " We do not choose who we love but how we love." What determines how we love? I realized that we are taught how to love. They say, " A father is a daughter's first love and a son's first hero." This is totally true because our parents mold the emotional beings we become.
Love is expressed as a action and experienced as a feeling. Therefore an act must happen to arouse emotion. This then means love is related to perspective because we have to interpret actions and relate them to respective emotions. A question has been asked before, "How deep is your love ?" Depth is a perspective quantity and love being an emotion should therefore be visualized and quantified adequately relative to the actions . What this means is that what we experience and visualize in the cradle becomes our perspective of what love is . They Say the first cut is the deepest so if daddy touched me instead of tuck me in or if mummy shot-up drugs than take care of me , my perspective of love is going to be distorted. The same way a pool looks shallow when it has water so does love look when we have tearful eyes. Our hearts are like pants with elastic waists they conform to the first waist we experience and that will be our size. If parents show love to their children, the children know love and can reciprocate it. But like everything dependent upon human nature, it is a conundrum. A cardiac conundrum!!!