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We live in a very hectic time. In all areas of life, you are under constant pressure to perform. A good year ago I came across a simple but simple concept that I have been using ever since. This year before that, I had a small insight: it makes a huge difference whether you perfect your performance objectively or subjectively.

An objective perfectionist is so petrified in his thinking that he only measures himself against his environment, but completely forgets himself. He doesn't go the path of least resistance, he really wants his head through the wall, even though there is an open door by the way. He has lost his thinking in such a way that he no longer perceives other paths leading to the same goal. He takes himself completely out of the game and objectively speaking, he wants to be the best. I would describe this type of person as a pathological perfectionist. He does not measure his success by himself, but by his environment, so he only pays attention to his competitors. continue

Jalan-jalan dan bisa kenal banyak orang merupakan salah dua kesenanganku. Dengan jalan-jalan aku bisa mendatangi banyak tempat yang berbeda dan bisa kenal banyak orang membuatku memiliki banyak teman dan tentunya mendapatkan pelajaran berharga yang proses kehidupan orang lain yang berbeda-beda.

Nah, pada minggu lalu aku berkesempatan mengunjungi sebuah tempat yang sudah hampir satu tahun tak aku datangi. Tempat itu berada di pinggiran kota Semarang. Untuk sampai ke tempat itu harus melalui gang-gang sempit karena letaknya yang agak jauh dari jalan raya. Daerah itu dikenal dengan daerah Kapling, Kedungmundu Semanrang. continue

STORY 1

In some of the biggest cities in the world, there was a successful businessman, the boss, the director and god-like figure to his employers. He was one of the richest people in his country. He was harsh to his opponents and even more harsh to his employees. He loved high life he lived, he had few friends but they were just acting as friends. He was mocking them, making fun of them, he was rude and nobody could confront him. He was a real pain in the ass, especially for a new employee, a coffee boy. He was constantly humiliating that young man because he came from the foreign county, spoke strangely and he was too obedient. One day, the big boss smelled the business opportunity on Steemit. So he joined to the social network and started blogging. His posts were not friendly, he acted hostile to those who commented on his posts and it was very hard for him to get some real followers. Although he invested a lot in Steem Power, the most of the rewards that he got, he got from himself. He wasn't good as follower neither. He would humiliate people who posted funny stuff, photos and stories calling them "weak and unstable brains". But Steemit wasn't what he expected. He got used that everybody shows him respect and fear. In outside world, the most people he met had to "bend their knees" in front of them. But on Steemit he felt that he was equal to others. That wasn't familiar ground to him, other Steemers noticed that he is a human trash so he couldn't make any significant success, except what he gave to himself by self upvoting.

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