FEELING OF INADEQUACY: YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH

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Today I want to talk to people who live with the feeling of adequacy, this feeling has damaged the happiness of many, truncated their growth greatly and at the same time killed their dreams. It is exactly why some persons are inactive and unproductive today.

I want to disabuse your mind from the feeling that you are not good enough, you could as well convert the feeling into motivation. Always have it at the back of your mind that you can do it, say to yourself "yes, I can", develop a self esteem and tell yourself that you are good enough.

Alfred adler once said and I quote;

"everyone has a feeling of inferiority. This feeling is not a disease, it is rather stimulant, to normal striving and development".

The feeling of fear, shame, and inferiority can enslave one and make one unhappy, it can also stop one from achieving their dreams. On the other hand if one develops himself, the feeling of fears, doubts and shames may be converted to motivation.

Do you know you have all it takes to carry out that which you think is impossible? Do you know you are good enough, if you do, why do you allow fear and doubt to engulf you, do you struggle with this feeling or have you surrendered yourself to it, this feeling will rob you of your potentials.

There are successful people, who don't feel they have achieved anything, they feel sad and always unhappy, they are quick to see their flaws rather than their achievements, at times the feel they don't deserve their accomplishments.

Feeling of Inadequacy can limit you, when faced with opportunity, this feeling makes you feel that you may not be able to accomplish, it makes you believe that taking the risk we mean another failure, and this doubt and fear makes you faileventually.

I want to conclude by giving hope to anyone who lives with this feeling, there is still time there is an ample time to unlock yourself from this prison, you judge yourself wrongly and you are not fair to yourself. Change your mind a bit, I want to assure you that many who lived with this feeling grew pass the stage, so, do not let it to rule you, do not live in the darkness anymore, emancipate yourself from this darkness, for "dark mines" produces gold. Since you're fully aware that your in the dark, kindly go for gold.