How many times have you lost, won or simply moved away ... because you thought you were right!
The certain thing is that, by a forceful attitude, perhaps rigid, which, when considering it later, we realize that ... if we had yielded even a little ... it would have gained still more and, that feeling that overwhelms us - between sadness and frustration- it makes that experience heavier.
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The Neurolinguistic Programming says that the one that handles a greater number of options has the control of the situation, that is to say, the one that uses of flexibility. Take the thought out of your head: "If I give up, I am a loser" or "If I give up, I do not serve ..."
On the contrary, when we yield we are showing more openness, greater understanding and, even courage, because as time goes by, we can have a resolution more similar to the criterion we proposed that, the one we decided ... remember that intelligence consists of ordering resources to achieve the objectives; the wisdom is to apply the intelligence in each of our scenarios ... so ... be wisely flexible ..
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