Never chase love, affection or attention.If it isn't given freely by another person, it isn't worth having. Do not waste your finite time and heart trying to convince the people who aren't your people that you have value.

Stay focused on your goals, your peace, and your happiness. Do not waste your time on anything that doesn't contribute your growth.When someone rejects you or judges you, it isn't actually about you, it is about them and their insecurities. Stay focus and kill them with your kindness.

Be a woman other women can trust, have the courage to tell another woman direct when she has offended, hurt or disappointed you.We may encounter much defeat, but we must not be defeated.

Find your worth within yourself and then find a man who is worthy of your worth. Accept the compliments and criticism graciously, knowing that it takes both sunshine and rain for a flower to grow :-)

Make time for yourself, challenges yourself and Educate yourself., Be your own kind of beautiful.

Chase your dreams...In high heels of course :-).