Truth time!
Y'all listen. Please. If you are a Christian and you are preaching to people about living like Jesus and his apostles lived, then please, for the love of bacon, tell the truth.
Jesus was not a man to go quietly in to the night. Jesus and his apostles were resistance. They lived their lives in protest. The beard Jesus wore was not because it's holy to wear a beard, He grew the beard as a symbol of resistance against the clean shaven Romans. The way Jesus and his apostles dressed was also a symbol of resistance. Jesus was not a quiet man, nor was he without vengeful anger. When Jesus got mad, he raised His voice. He put hands on more than one person in anger.
It's all right there in the Bible y'all. I'm not making this stuff up! Try truth to bring people to Christ! You do want to live your life like Jesus did but let's live how Jesus lived and not the idea religion has put in your head of how Jesus lived.