Everything that happens with us is not accidental

They say that everything that happens with us is not accidental, and the people with whom fate confronts us will necessarily present a lesson, even if it's just a passer-by and looked into our lives for five minutes. You can be skeptical about this, because some meetings seem absolutely useless, and it happens that we are not at all pleasant, but this is only at first glance.

 Sometimes an outsider is able to understand the essence, which you can not see anymore, to give an objective assessment where everything has become subjective and mired in a mire of false ideas. Not burdened with emotions, he is more cold-blooded about the situation and is able to see the truth, even if it is unsightly and you persistently deny it. 

It can lead you out of the impasse and help you make the right decision, or it will become a projection and allow you to look at the situation from a different angle, or see yourself side. As a rule, the significance of such meetings is not obvious, and their influence will remain unnoticed, but it definitely exists, you just need to drop a little deeper and it becomes clear that each meeting is crucial.