We are a reflection of each other

in writing •  7 years ago 

Why do we take offense at each other? After reflection, you will find that another person can not offend you in principle. When do we take offense? We take offense when someone does not act in the way that we expected of him. But these were our expectations and our desires, not his. Should another person meet our expectations and desires? We believe that yes. But should we ourselves meet the expectations and desire of other people? And then a problem arises. Thinking, you decide that you simply can not meet the expectations and desires of all and everybody. Then why do you require this from another person? Everything is very simple. When we take offense at someone, he has nothing to do with it. Because it was our expectations. But is this a bad insult? Of course not. Resentment of someone helps us to discover our own complexes. We are all a mirror for each other.

Do not accumulate grievances! Live free!

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Beautiful post 😊 Just give you up vote
@torem-torem

Thank you

You're welcome 😊 @torem-di-torem

İ think every person are responsible of his acting he influance and influanced by others

Agree with you

So true! Good job:)