BlogHide Resteemsparagnostandrea (54)in love • 7 years agoI think this has been the toughest, yet greatest, lesson to learn.In my previous life happenings, I’ve opened up my heart, but it’s always been hesitantly, with great care, mostly holding just a little bit more in than I should. It was with him that I finally…paragnostandrea (54)in spirituality • 7 years agoWhat if we loved ourselves right now, in this moment, regardless of where we are at?What if we could love ourselves while we dig deep and work on the parts of us that need change? What if we could push ourselves and hold ourselves at the same time? What if we could forgive the…paragnostandrea (54)in love • 7 years agoWhen my heart gets hurt/ wounded I feel like I can't breathe.I feel like a knife is puncturing the softest part of my heart and I'm bleeding profusely. (Dramatic? Perhaps but it's my experience) My heart pounds, I feel dizzy, I hurt in every part of my body.…paragnostandrea (54)in spirituality • 7 years agoThere are moments when I want to feel less.I want to numb out. I want to hide inside a nice safe delusion, I want to block out the pain I feel that swirls around in my body and makes my head hurt. My sensitivity hurts at times but I've…paragnostandrea (54)in love • 7 years agoPERFECTLY IMPERFECTI have never written about or implied that people need to be perfect before they enter into relationship. My relationship is real, raw, complicated and it takes a tremendous amount of work and…paragnostandrea (54)in spirituality • 7 years agoYOU DON'T HAVE TO BE 'FINE'I sat down last night and attempted to write something profound and inspirational but nothing came. I felt emotionally stuck, exhausted and very very weepy. There is an incredible amount of…paragnostandrea (54)in love • 7 years agoLONELY/SPACEMy heart aches for the women who are feeling lonely or are in the process of a break-up. I am going to encourage you to really feel into the lonely space. Allow yourself to grieve the loss of the…paragnostandrea (54)in spirituality • 7 years agoINTERNAL VOICEMy internal voice used to be harsh, unloving and unforgiving. She didn't provide a safe space, she was a cold hearted, judgemental bitch. I made a commitment to push her to evolve and become…paragnostandrea (54)in love • 7 years agoYOU ARE BEAUTIFUL ❤️Do not let the size or shape of your body define who you are. Do not let the size and shape of your body hold you back. Do not let the size and shape of your body tell you you're Imperfect…paragnostandrea (54)in spirituality • 7 years agoSoul love is the most powerful, intimate body, mind, soul relationship.Soul love is when you can love without walls, hesitation and fear. Soul love is when you can laugh your loudest, cry your ugliest, reveal your deepest secrets without guilt or shame. It fills you…paragnostandrea (54)in love • 7 years agoTHE CONSCIOUS PATH TO LOVEI didn't FALL in love with my partner I walked into love with him from a place of clarity and awareness. I observed him under pressure I watched how he handled bad traffic I observed how he…paragnostandrea (54)in spirituality • 7 years agoWHAT'S THE TRUTH ABOUT YOU?Every time that voice in your head starts bringing you down, telling you you're weird, you're too much, you're too intense, you're crazy, you don't deserve better, you're needy. There might be…paragnostandrea (54)in spirituality • 7 years agoDO YOU HAVE THE COURAGE TO RADICALLY LOVE EVERY PART OF YOU?How do you speak to yourself? What's your inner dialogue like? Would you talk to your lover, your child or your bestie the way you talk to yourself? The way we talk to ourselves determines how…paragnostandrea (54)in love • 7 years agoTABLE FOR ONE PLEASE 👩🏻A few years into my singlehood I had this intuitive nudge that I needed to start dating myself. Spirit was letting me know that I needed to get out of my house - I needed to spend some kid free time…paragnostandrea (54)in life • 7 years agoMY TIME TO CRYToday I'm choosing to cry instead of going numb or running away. Even though in this moment I feel gross and alone I know on the other side of my tears is strength and growth..... Love, tears…paragnostandrea (54)in love • 7 years agoHIS & HER RESPONSIBILITIESHis job is to prove he's trustworthy, safe and stable. His job is to show you how he reacts to stress and pressure. It's his job to prove he can 'handle' a women like you without yelling, fighting…paragnostandrea (54)in love • 7 years agoWhen he says...When he says you're too good for him BELIEVE HIM When he says he doesn't deserve you BELIVE HIM When he says he's not ready to commit BELIEVE HIM When he says he doesn't believe in monogamy…paragnostandrea (54)in spirituality • 7 years agoWOMEN'S 3 BIGGEST REGRETSIf you knew it would be over tomorrow, would you be happy with your life so far? People grow a lot when they are faced with their own mortality. When questioned about any regrets or anything they…paragnostandrea (54)in love • 7 years agoDON'T OFFER YOUR SOUL UNTIL HE'S EARNED IT.Men need to earn the key to a conscious woman's heart. It's our right and responsibility as conscious women to be patient and lean back until a man has proven his worth, proven he's the one who…paragnostandrea (54)in spirituality • 7 years agoWHY DO WE CRAVE CONSCIOUS RELATIONSHIPS?What's the big deal? Why are we compelled to seek a conscious partnership? What makes the 'conscious' dynamic so incredibly different? Conscious love makes you more of who you were created to…
