I was bothered by two of my Ex-boyfriends – Dream interpretation

I am 18 years old and I have had a boyfriend for a year now; we have been a couple in the past but had a break for a year and a half. During that time, I had another boyfriend.

For the last two nights, I have had strange dreams. The first involved my former ex (the one during the break time) who had broken my heart. In this dream, I dreamed that he came to visit my house. My father was sleeping, and he begged me to be his girlfriend again. He had made a lot of noise and had woken up my father who got mad and told him to leave. Then my ex did a bit of a mess, went around the house, grabbed me and did not let go. The dream ended when I ran away from him and told him to leave me alone because I am in love with my current boyfriend.

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The second dream was about my first ex-boyfriend. He has broken my heart as well. In the dream, I saw him with his friend (they are always together in real life), and I was with my girlfriend. We went to hang out at an unfamiliar park with a river next to it. Sometime during the dream, I stayed alone with my ex and he said something silly. In return, I told him (for the first time) that I thought he was acting like a little child and that he really hurt me and that I would not allow him to do it again. He promised to change and that he would stop behaving like that. We reconciled, and the dream was over.

What do all these strange dreams mean? By the way, this is the only two guys who really broke my heart because they chose to end the relationships.

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The dreams send a message of a closure.

As for the first, you probably have had doubts, which have lingered since the separation - would the guy be right for you? Have you missed your "one"? The dream comes to say: definitely not. He does not suit you. There is no spiritual connection between you two (your father is asleep). There was a harsh communication between you two, the relationship served its purpose and ended rightfully so.

In the second dream, you acted out a psychological closure. The dream tells that your relationship served your growth, you learned something about yourself and now you are wiser. It is wonderful that you stated your choices so clearly as they are heard, loud and clear, throughout your inner psychic world. Here, too, the guy is not your "one" and therefore if you have thoughts on the subject or doubts they have no place. Release them. The process of letting go is welcomed, occurs naturally and is good for you. You certainly live a healthy mental life, despite the broken heart, or two.

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