Love is a overrated emotion in relationships , it's true love alone can lay the foundation of a relationship but love alone is not enough to make that foundation stay .
People need to understand this that relationships are like demanding girlfriend and love is like a careless dude(what a camparison , I should kill my self for this, lol ). you need commitment, respect, understanding, compassion, forgiveness and most of all hope and faith to make a relationship prosper and grow.
It doesn't mean that skip love at all from relationships, not at all. It's just build house of your relationships on all of these pillars for a stronger structure so that it withstands every storm life throws at it .