Let's give this some thought ....maybe gain some balance

I found these insights and they resonated with me. Maybe you too.
Enlightenment means waking up to what you truly are and then being that. Realize and then be. Realization alone is not enough. The completion of Self-realization is to be, which means to act, do, and express what you realize. This is a very deep matter, a whole new way of life-living in and as reality instead of living out the programmed ideas, beliefs, and impulses of your dreaming mind. The truth is that you are already what you seeking.
--Adyashanti, Emptiness Dancing
I found these insights and they resonated with me. Maybe you too What we call our destiny is truly our character and that character can be altered. The knowledge that we are responsible for our actions, and attitudes does not need to be discouraged, because it also means that we are free to change our destiny. One is not in bondage to our past, which has shaped our feeling, to race, inheritance, background.
All this can be altered if we have the courage to examine how it formed us. We can alter the chemistry provided we have the courage to dissect the elements.
--Anias Nin
When we move from comparative logic to heart centered unity we find whole new possibilities for perceiving and predicting experience for our lives. Perhaps all our limitations in life are rooted in limited perspectives about life
--Glenda Green, Keys to Jeshua