In this discourse from 1981, Ajahn Sumedho goes through some rough episodes in his personal life that made him let go of his opinions, projections, and illusions.
"...That time I decided I would no longer live my life on my own terms, but that I should just let life live itself and be mindful of it."
The clip is taken from a longer one called "Opinions".
You can listen and download this talk, and many other ones at:
https://www.amaravati.org/series/108-talks-by-luang-por-sumedho/
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