When we are in a relationship, the two things that we are afraid the most are "breaking up" and "arguing."
The former is easy to lose confidence in the relationship, and the latter is easy to hurt each other's feeling.
In fact, whether we are married or not, one thing that is unavoidable to face is arguing.
Some people are getting closer after arguing, but others are falling apart.
When arguing happens, if the lovers are not able to hold their temper, they will cause harm to each other when they cross the line.
In fact, what makes a man the most addictive is never the softness of a woman, but the quarrel.
What should we do in a quarrel?
Don't say anything that we might regret.
When couples quarrel, adrenaline is secreted in large quantities. In the excitement, we will inevitably do something out of the ordinary, and even say something that hurts each other's feelings, causing irreversible and irreparable harm to others.
When you are angry, you should keep a cool head and prevent yourself from falling into the trap of emotions and the logic of the other party.
Many people, in their anger, always like to talk about "divorce" and "breakup". In this case, it may be just unintentional, but the person who hears this would suffer the invisible harm that last a long time.
Language is like an invisible knife, always hurting the other person's soul.
We can't see these injuries, but it doesn't mean that they don't exist.
One day, when the other party can't bear it, these injuries will be vividly visible and appear in the other party's mind. At that time, the real breaking up might just happen.
"During an avalanche, no snowflake is innocent." So, when you are getting so angry, learn to control your emotions and don't do things that you might regret later.
When you can't hold back the anger in you, tell yourself to be calm, because all you can hurt are usually the people who are closest to you.