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Lasse
A call out to all men that have had their child being taking away in any way - and to moralic sound people in generel.
My ex girlfriend / mother of my child has used my son as a weapon against me for years now.. Not only is it deliberate but I don't think she entirely realizes that she's setting the poor boy up for trust issues in the future by constantly lying to him about who his father is..
Oh well, Wish nothing but happiness for my offspring even if I'm not allowed to be in his life.. I might not have been the best father material but I certainly didn't deserve to have my son and the love I feel for him used against me.
Some folks have pretty deep psychological issues and its a damn shame when they start using the kids as pawns in their games of manipulation and pain.
P.S. Love the accent. Where you from?
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Hi Klye, I was only giving a flag, becourse your story didnt fit exactly in the category which I am trying to talk about. When that being said, I think only the real father is a real good father to the child. If there are issue with the father, that should be worked out and then contact regained.. but usually the "issues" with fathers, come after experiencing the extreme corrupt system. Thats what I was talking with you about klye. I think you blame yourself too much, as you have been told alot of lies!! I dont know everything that happened in the past, but I know that in most cases the father have no change no matter who he is! So there is a huge change that it was not your fault at all! Its a very sensitive topic, and I am very happy 2 upvoted your post. Btw I am from Denmark, my accent is from the world I guess.
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My personal situation is a complicated one.. That's for sure.
No worries about the flag. I get those sometimes.
You're taking very controversial subjects public and I commend you for that.
Perhaps one day I'll take the time to write on my own full experience with fathering a child at a young age.
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I want to talk more about this topic in the future. And I hope that other men and woman will engage in discussing this in public, this time on a blockchain!! Where the opinions will be stored forever!
And Klye as we also talked about, I am open to talk about your past situation in the future, but I would prefare to have other people on first.
Sure you are the best father to your child!
Lasse
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I'm not a man, (or a parent) but you have my support on dads rights. It's a serious issue that mother's are prioritised as the "primary caregivers" by the state, by the media and by society culturally. It's too easy for people to use it as leverage and it has actually become normal for single mothers to do so which is scary.
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I myself have not been so much exposed to tv series in many many years... and I guess alot of the "social programming" is going on there... but people seriously need to start think for themself, as 50% of our children or more have limited access to the father, which is completely destructive to the whole society. Alot of peoples lifes are ruined into many generations. I think this is the biggest issue in our society and the key for a better society: https://steemit.com/badmothers/@lasseehlers/the-reason-why-men-dating-single-mothers-have-no-value-to-society
Thank you for your comment, I myself find it very difficult to bring up this topic for many reasons, but I want to bring it up and hope we will have an ongoing duscussion about the topic here on Steemit. I need a break now though.
Steem on :)
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I watched your video on why people shouldn't date single mothers and I'm sorry that's where you lost me. I understand that you probably went through 2 awful relationships that left a bad taste in your mouth. But the same argument could be applied to you as a single father....... That nobody should date you because you failed your previous relationships....... That sounds harsh but that's the argument you're making about all single mothers.....
And I've dated a single father and he was beautiful and it broke my heart to watch him say goodbye to his kids every weekend. But to say that his ex should not have a new partner who offers additional care to her family is just strange to me. My ex boyfriend (the kids father) would never have even said that. Because he would have had to apply the same argument to himself.
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I dont agree. Be course a break up is 99/100 iniciated by the woman. I will be more specific in future videos. Right now I need a break from this topic.
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