Learn to Speak efficiently series：Honest people don't know how to fall in love? Learn to tell a story, change a beautiful girl's attitude towards you.

 Last night, a Netizen said that because of too honest, 38 years old has not found a girlfriend. A few days ago, someone introduced him to a girl, but that girl thinks he is too thin, dark skin, and earn less money. He asked me, what can I say to make a girl like herself?
Why do many good men and women not fall in love when they date?
There may be many reasons, but most of all, many men just work hard and don't express themselves easily.
Work is a brute force; work at hand is done as fast as you can, and the money is paid. And the expression is the use of ingenuity, the thoughts in the heart, into interesting stories to change the attitude of others to you.
In other words, if you want to be happy in love, you must change from a person who works honestly to a person who can tell stories.
How do you tell a good story about people? The main methods are: goals, plots, and stories.
1. Design goals: What do you want to change about others?
There are usually three ways to impress someone by talking.
One is to change the information she has. For example, if you haven't known a girl long and she doesn't know much about you, you can provide some new information to change her opinion of you.
The second is to change her actions. For example, after the meeting, you want to make further progress. You can invite her to go to the movie or go on a trip.
The third is to change her beliefs. If the other person has a negative view of you, then you need to inspire her to look at you from a new perspective.
In the above example, the Netizen is the third kind: she thinks you are thin, black, and makes less money. If you really like her, you have to change her attitude toward you.
2. Design plot: Choose a suitable storyline to achieve the goal.
If you want to change the other person's information, then your story story must be true and verifiable, so that the information can be convincing. For example, if the other person thinks you are poor, you can tell a story about how you make money, and then show the Passbook.
If you want to change someone else's actions, you can tell an easy story. For example, if you want to ask a beautiful woman to travel with you, you must explain the steps of the trip in an orderly manner, so that others feel simple, relaxed and fun, so that others will have the desire to act.
If you want to change the way people treat you. If you don't have the money, you don't have the ability to work, you're small, you want to be looked up to, you have to tell someone a story about your dreams, and it's great that they see you in the future.
3. Design story: refers to the five-step story method. It is mainly to use time, place, characters, processes, and reasons to compile a meaningful story to change the beliefs of beautiful women.
In the above example, the Netizen focuses on changing the girl's beliefs and can tell a dream story to affect her.
That's the story I told a girl in the world park in May 2010, and now she's my wife. Here's what I said:
"One winter when I was 12 years old, I wore broken sneakers and followed my father to dig sweet potatoes in the ground. It was freezing, but I was warm inside.
Because at that time, he was reading a "Story of Mao.zedong's Study". At that time, Lao Mao's dream was to "let every ordinary person oppressed by the landlord become his own master." But only if you learn how to write and speak. So he studied hard and finally became a great person.
My goal is to "make it easy for everyone in the workplace to realize their dreams through expression." In recent years, I 've been training, writing from the media, to move forward. Although I am far from success, but I believe in the future! " said the girl happily," I can help you, too!
Any good speech or meaningful conversation is carefully designed.
You design your own story, ask about the girl in your heart.