People around us shapes us!

in behaviour •  4 years ago 

Remember how you used to be when you were in school or at your early age and you will notice you actually behaved more like the people around you. Yeah, it's a proven thing. But the unfortunate thing is when it comes to choosing who we want to be with we don't really consider this thing. Do we?

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When the environment is toxic we can't live a healthy life. Just like that if we hand with people with negative mentality or who have unhealthy habits, there's a high chance that we will slowly become like them. Well, it's not like adopting their behavior but it's more like unknowingly reducing the line between you and them.

One main key to success is the people we know, the people we spend most of our time with. You may argue that your good habits many also influence them. But don't you agree, we as a human being has high chance to adopt bad than good? This same thing happens to all of us. That's why choosing the right people, no matter if it's your partner or friends is way more necessary.

Now you can say that what's about the people we can't control to choose from? Like our colleagues. In that case, we should keep our line in our relationships, as simple as that.

Make a conscious decision to be with people who make you happy, give you a confident feeling, make you feel positive, and better about yourself. Also, choose who shows you the right path to be on the path of success. A good advisor can make your life choices easy.

We all have a seed in ourselves to be good or bad. Now we can choose what seed we want to grow!

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