Type of partners according to Birth Order
Oldest- sabi nila, kapag ang partner mo raw ay ang eldest among the siblings, they are authoritative and overprotective. Authoritative means, they always want to be &respected and obeyed. yung tipong gusto nila palaging sila ang nasusunod sa relationship like our ates and kuyas. gusto nila palaging sila ang nagkokontrol. Overprotective naman, kasi diba kapag eldest, they're always present to protect their younger siblings. Sila yung tipo nang "Asan ka na? Umuwi ka na. Gabi na." partner.
Middle- This might be untrue but they said, middle children are insecure. So kapag ang partner mo is somewhere in the middle among the siblings, mabilis silang magselos kahit over silly things. Masiyado ring sensitive ang feelings nila. Sabi nga ni Adler, nawala sa kanila ang atensiyon at napunta lahat sa youngest kaya ang personality nila are jealous and insecure. "Sinong kasama mo? Mag behave ka ha!?" type of partner.
The youngest- These are the spoiled ones. Ito yung mga sanay babyhin ng parents kaya sa relationship, it's a must na dapat silang pagbigyan sa mga gusto nila kasi kung hindi, magtatampo agad sila. Most of them are attention seekers. Kasi diba, sa family bunso ang palaging pinapansin at pinapaboran ng magagaling nating parents at mga eldest siblings. lol. Adler said, they are the dependent kind. So kapag ang partner mo is the youngest, clingy siya. Sila yung "Miss na kita. Miss mo na ba ako? Pansinin mo naman ako. Huy!" kahit ilang oras palang ang nakakalipas na kausap/nakita mo siya.
The only child- They said, this is the most difficult type of partner. Kasi nasa kanila ang almost lahat ng nabanggit na characteristics sa taas. Sa kanila ang focus ng whole family kasi nga only child. Parang the youngest type na spoiled and used to be the center of attention, dependent and selfish. Parang middle type na sensitive. Parang oldest type na, domineering. Sila yung tipo ng partner na mahirap maintindihan. lol.
Sabi nila, mahirap daw maging mag jowa ang parehong panganay kasi parehong controlling and authoritative. Parehong hindi nagpapatalo sa arguments, parehong gusto sila ang masusunod kaya madalas naglilead sa away ang lahat. Hahaha!
But well, these might be untrue kasi depende naman ang lahat sa tao. These are only based on general assumptions and the Psychotherapist Alfred Adler's theory of personality according to Birth order.
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