HOW TO EFFORTLESSLY MANIPULATE OTHERS

Let’s talk for a few minutes, you and I, about people.
You probably know a lot of people – your co-workers, your family, your high
school English teacher.
But I’m talking about “people” in a broader context. I’m talking about the human
race, and the emotions that have driven us to eat, love, kill, and spend money for
thousands of years.
While individuals are complex and nuanced, people on the macro level are
incredibly simple. And that’s going to work to your advantage.
Just understanding these emotional
hot buttons and applying them
consistently will be amazing first step
on your way towards being a
copywriting professional. You don’t
even have to be subtle about it. Just
follow along.
As you write your copy, research your
markets, and introduce yourself to future clients and customers, think about
these buttons, and what you can do to push them.
In time, it’ll bleed into your civilian life, and you’ll think about the art of
manipulation whenever you watch political arguments, argue with your friends,
or look at an advertisement. When you’re no longer shocked at how often they’re
applied, consider yourself a copywriter.

PEOPLE ARE AFRAID

Every human life has its share of tragedy – unanswered loves, missed
opportunities, loved ones who are gone forever. We see others suffer all the time,

and that’s why most people are driven by their fear of suffering. People will do
anything to avoid poverty, loneliness, sickness and death.
But here’s a paradox – people will often refuse to do the things that could help
them avoid those things. We don’t just fear consequences – we fear struggle of
any kind. No matter what kind of rewards are at stake, the average person wants
them without pain and without risk, and will look endlessly for a way to avoid
either.

PEOPLE DON’T LIKE RESPONSIBILITY

Few people purposely sabotage their own lives. Most of us are doing the best we
can despite not always having the best of circumstances. It hurts to be told that
after everything we’re doing to keep our heads above water, there’s something
else we’ve neglected to do.
It’s easy to trust a person who tells us things aren’t our fault. That’s something
that we feel, deep down. Someone who repeats it back to us instantly builds a
rapport, which is why the phrase it’s not your fault pops up in so much sales copy.

PEOPLE FEEL GUILTY ABOUT THEIR MISTAKES

Despite what’s been said so far, your average person isn’t an oblivious ball of
entitlement and misdirected anger… well, not always, anyway. We remember the
things we did wrong, and we’d do anything to turn back time, undo the damage
of our previous choices, and make things right again.
And if there were ONE BIG CHANGE (say, a purchase) we could make to set us
back on the right path, we’d take it.
Guilt, in small doses, is a powerful intersection between fear and hope. Use it.

PEOPLE ARE TIRED OF BEING SCREWED OVER

All of us are faced with a lot of enemies in our lives, whether they’re economic,
social, or natural. When it doesn’t look like there’s something around to blame,

we’ll make one up! Every time we make a purchase, we’re looking for a friend in
our personal struggles.
Someone who hates the same things we hate is easy to see as a friend. Have you
noticed how everyone who asks for your email address nowadays hates spam?

PEOPLE WANT IN

Every human walking the face of this planet is ordinary in most aspects of life. If
we’re really lucky, there are a couple of things (access to a special group, or
specialized knowledge) that separates us from the rest of the world. Ask a writer,
doctor, or a carpenter about their craft and their eyes will well up with pride as
they discuss what we do.
Everybody wants to feel like they’re part of
an exclusive club. And if we can buy in for
the privilege, they’ll do so happily.
Conversely, if you threaten to leave us out,
whether you use time or a number as your
limiting factor, even the most levelheaded
person will go into a panic.

PEOPLE WANT APPROVAL

Love, respect, appreciation – no matter what you want to call it, we’ve all done
nice things for others and made sacrifices, and we’d really like it if someone
appreciated them.
We get suspicious when someone piles on the approval, but a compliment always
makes us happy – and it always makes us want to live up to that compliment.

PEOPLE WANT TO BE PROTECTED

Most of us are exhausting ourselves trying to chase our needs and desires. And
there’s always a facet of life we don’t know anything about.

Everyone could use a little help.
Once someone promises to lead us, save us, teach us, or smooth our path, we’ll
bend over backwards to satisfy them in any way possible – especially if they’ve
proven they’re up to the task.
Can I emphasize that for a minute? No matter how well your business is doing,
the instinct to be protected by someone stronger than them is more powerful
than the instinct to take pity on someone weaker than them. That’s why
positioning yourself as a skilled copywriter is so important.