What are you doing so that everything goes well? Are you working to achieve it? Do you dedicate time to what you want to achieve as a goal?
You only work to reach the goal. you can get to have a great job, you can set goals like having your own house, how to be a great husband or a better wife, you can also strive to be a better mother, you can also prepare to be the loving wife, special and Compressive that your Husband would like you to be. You can be everything you want, you just have to propose goals in your life.
But to become what you want, you just have to work to achieve it with a lot of effort and that is not going to happen only with saying yes I can! Not much less with being all day immersed in the vagrancy.
My friends that is achieved with effort and dedication, even the Lord Jesus Christ himself, had to work on what he wanted to become, the savior of humanity, he not only said one day humanity would be saved and ready, not friends the first job, had to endure Angustia, had to deal with unbelievers, I had to send to calm the storms and storms, even endure lashes, humiliations, but he never gave up and we are proof of that. Then because you sometimes do not even want to move a finger to achieve what you want.
Because you want everything to fall from the sky !! I already told you that everything you want to become, you can do. But it is not free. I tell you I like free things, in fact if everything were free, I did not have it. But then life would not have the same meaning. Well maybe yes or maybe not. Who could know? The truth is that in this life nothing is free, because even if your parents or your husband or who wants to keep you, always at the end you will get bills at some point, the bill comes to you.
So going back to the subject, it is better that we work for what we want.
Let's ask no. What do we want? And let's work focused to achieve it and not let our dreams stay saved or our goals.
I hope my post somehow helps you or encourages you to fight without resting,