It Was The Day Before My Mother Died

in cemeteryphotos •  6 years ago  (edited)

I thought she was better. I had travelled across the country to see her a couple of weeks earlier. I didn't know she had been taken back to the hospital.

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I walked around Ross Bay Cemetery in Victoria, BC on this beautiful autumn day - September 7th, 2015. There was nothing on my mind other than getting some photos. I saw the young male Mule Deer and started to follow...

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The cemetery has roughly twenty thousand graves - and only four known ghosts which have been sighted many times over the years. Ghosts don't seem to like cemeteries much, contrary to popular myth.

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I don't know how many deer live in the cemetery but there must be about a couple dozen or so. A small herd that mostly stays hidden during the day.

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The males are usually found in a small group, keeping separate from the females and fawns. The blue you can see through the trees is not the sky, it's the Pacific ocean.

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The deer are very tame. They will allow you to approach to within a few feet but will move off if you try to get any closer. These photos were taken with a 50mm standard lens and not cropped.

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The next morning I got the call... come home. There is a gap in my photos of three or four days, and the next photo I can find is at my parent's place, after the funeral.

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The final photo was taken about a year later. The cemetery where my Mother is buried is 2,000 miles away. I don't get to visit often but I do go back to the Ross Bay cemetery now and then, and the deer are always waiting.




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A touching story, my friend No matter the location, cemeteries can give us a peaceful place to remember the people who have left. And this is definitely one of those peaceful places. Thank you for sharing it and the beautiful deer! Resteemed and tip!

Thank you, Melinda. It's funny, I talked about nothing but the deer, but the story wasn't about them at all...

I understood that and was touched by it. I think those deer are there to help you feel at peace.

You might be right.

These are great photos. I really enjoyed looking at them.

Thanks very much!

Yesterday I buried my grandmother. She was like a mother to me. Wonderful, beloved, I could always rely on her.

A beautiful and very touching post. My heart reflects what I feel towards to you.

Greetings

I'm so sorry for your loss, Margaret. If my post touched a chord with you, I'm very happy. God bless.

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I like seeing the deer in the cemetery - they give life to it. Sorry about your Mother ‘s passing and the distance. We never think we do enough when a loved one passes.
She would know you miss her and wanted to be there.

Thank you. I never planned to post about this, but now it's done.

A sad story, my dear Keith. With wonderful photos. I'm sorry for your loss, my friend.

Thank you, it's been a few years now. I'm glad you liked the photos :)

I did, Keith! Cheers!

  ·  6 years ago (edited)

First of all, I'm sorry for your loss! Loosing a parent is not easy, no matter how old you are! My condolences!

Wow, how fortunate you can be to catch a deer at the cemetery! Well done Keith! I Love all the photos!

Thank you Erika. It's not easy and I still have a very hard time with it.

I understand you. I lost my mother nine years ago and I know the feeling. Only time will heal the wounds.

In just a few short paragraphs you've said so much @keithboone Thank you for sharing your poignant thoughts with us along with these very beautiful photos. It must have been very comforting to know that you were able to spend quality time with your mother before she passed away.........leaving you with many warm and wonderful memories, I'm sure.

Thank you, Trudee. It was difficult. These things always are.