The BULLYNG, it can be said that it is the harassment and psychological of one or several partners to another or others, in it three parties are involved: the victim (s), the aggressor (s) and the spectator (s).
the victim always tends to be a shy person, of low self-esteem, they are insecure, they are also people who bring family problems and they may have suffered some type of abuse, both physical and psychological, for that reason they tend to be withdrawn and they themselves are excluded.
The aggressor is the person who commits the act, his personality becomes more controllers, impulsive, aggressive, they want to be leaders or they do what they say they do not have a good behavior, in many cases the aggressors can also be people who have suffered harassment or abuse, in the myriad of cases they copy the behavior of the parents when there aremalles and that is what they imitate.
The spectators in general are people who are present when those abuses happen, approving, denying or simply ignoring what happens.
We live in a society where power wins, for example, people (not all) who have great success either in a job, at school, because they are "popular" or because they have a good social position, a good clothing or a better monetary income, believe that they can humiliate or ridicule others do not care about the value that people may have.
Also on the other hand we live in a society where respect has been lost often we always criticize different people and unconsciously we begin to treat them badly with any gesture that despite not being violent are covert attitudes that if we do not react they can become bigger.
When you start to criticize people that if it is thin or fat, high or low, black or white even in the way of dressing or talking is just at that moment where we have to realize that we are wrong, with all this social picture it is logical that the violence spreads in the classrooms, in fact there are teachers who do bullying
Bullying does not begin as an act of violence as such, in fact the harassment begins little by little first they look for the weakest person they see more vulnerable then with heavy games, jokes that can compromise their school stuff, notebooks, bags , the next day a push, a scream, so that it becomes violence and is something frequent, the violence intensifies as the aggressor upsets the victim and verifies that with his actions he is making the person feel bad and while but it proves more it feeds its ego and it knows that it has dominion in the victim, of the school it begins to do it by the social networks and it is here where the cyberbullyng appears and the way to harm it is taking photos or uploading to the networks videos where it affects the self-esteem of the victim immediately everyone will see the harassment and it is there where the victim is most affected.
Each victim of bullyng reacts differently, many of them hurt themselves by cutting their wrists or veins hurting themselves in a way that could lead to suicide, others resort to violence, such is the case that they attack their aggressors and in many cases they can even kill them, they have seen many cases that end that way
Therefore it is important to educate ourselves on the subject to educate our children and our environment there are ways to prevent bullyng situations and then not have to complain about the consequences that may bring. If you are a teacher (as is my case), you should create a healthy and comfortable environment where adolescents feel confident, punish bad behavior and congratulate them for good ones, prepare activities in groups and not allow the exclusion of any student if we see that there is a failure to speak with them in private and above all teach them that in the eyes of GOD we are all equal and we all have value as people, make sure that they have good self-esteem and work together with the parents as we have to know that the first education comes from home, teachers teach and reinforce the values learned at home.
Say no to BULLYNG and thus we will form a better society and a better future for our children
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