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I often hear alot of brothers talking about how difficult it is for men to understand women. One of the favourite phrases they use is -
"you can never understand women, it is impossible."
Well, maybe they are right anyway. Maybe it is impossible for men to understand woman, women are just ....uhhhhhhh so complicated, very annoying and too difficult to understand sometimes 😊😊..
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But wait a second uncle, who told you to understand women? Who even told you to try?
Nobody!
The job has been made easier for you, you don't have to understand WOMEN, all you have to do is to understand the woman that God has given to you, that's all, God has made the job easier for you, He said understand your woman, ONE woman, not WOMEN. And if God wants you to do this, then He believes it is something that is possible for you to do.
1Peter chapter 3 verse number 7 says;
"Likewise ye husband, dwell with your wife according to knowledge( the knowledge of her, that is, talking about relating with your wife according to the understanding of who she is), giving honor unto her..." (KJV)
The scripture would never have encouraged us to relate with our wives according to understanding if it were not possible to do so.
God did not say "deal with women according to knowledge", He said deal with your WIFE according to knowledge, not all women, no one asked you to go and understand every woman, He said one woman, your woman! Understand her and forget the others. It is indeed impossible to understand women, because they are not your own, find yours and understand her. Understanding women is not a part of your husband curriculum, nobody sent you, your syllabus says stick to one, understand One, take special interest in one.
The reason why understanding your woman might be looking difficult for you is because you are looking at One woman with the eyes of WOMEN. No, stop that, stop the plenty comparisons, stop trying to fit the characters and qualities of women into one woman, it won't work that way. Start looking at her as one woman, one character, one unique quality, and start taking special interest in understanding that singular character in your life, you have no business with the others.
How other women behave have no relationship with how your own woman behaves, you need to start seeing her like that. This is not me saying that you Should, this is how God has said every man should look at his woman.
Stay blessed always!**