To be confident, the habits that must be avoided

in confident •  7 years ago 

The most beautiful thing you can wear is confidence – Blake Lively


Different people possess different qualities. Again, different types of qualities help people to do different types of work nicely. But there is a quality that you can not do any work properly if you do not have it. Yes, I'm talking about confidence. Let's see if you are responsible for some of your habits behind destroying this essential quality to succeed in life.

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  • Spend extra time in unnecessary work:
    Everyone have some quality in the world, but sadly, many of us spend so much time in unnecessary work, that's why we can not find those qualities through doing the necessary things.Because of that they always think of themselves as very trivial.

  • Always wait for someone else's consent:
    You are your greatest judge. Nobody can judge your actions better than you do in your situation. So, rather than asking someone else ask yourself that, "What is the right thing?"
    Otherwise you will become very dependent on others. As soon as you work with everyone's opinion, you will feel confused.

  • Thinking about the future:
    Always thinking about the future will always face the negative aspects of the future. We all know that the future is uncertain, but this does not mean that what we're expecting is nothing worse than it is in the future.
    It may also be that in the future we are waiting for something so good that we never thought. So there will be good things in the future to always keep this in mind.

  • Fear to depend on others:
    We often think of doing a lot of work that nobody can do better than me. But after believing with some other work, even if he can do the job well, it also creates confidence.

  • See "T" before "O":
    In business education we read a term called SWOT Analysis, where O is the Opportunity and T is Threat So here it is because of the fact that after seeing the T, it becomes the reason for decreasing self-confidence.

  • Minimize yourself in words:
    The temperament of speech itself is very bad. If a person goes to his ears repeatedly saying, "You can not do", then once the man is not able to do it, then think that what can be the result if you yourself say such a negative thing!


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thx for sharing

People need more of this in there life.

We all need some measure of this in our lives :)

You are your greatest judge. Nobody can judge your actions better than you do in your situation. So, rather than asking someone else ask yourself that, "What is the right thing?"
Otherwise you will become very dependent on others. As soon as you work with everyone's opinion, you will feel confused.

This is true and effective, as long as your thoughts are objective.

"Spend extra time in unnecessary work"

This point is very powerful. I do some unnecessary things, sometime to either get our mind off work or to just use it as a form of relaxation.

But, turning this to a usual practice is where the problem is.

I like the points that you have raised.

Do you think reading some forms of books and watching some types of videos can boost confidence?

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