Everyone likes to have a nice, long conversation with their loved one because a good conversation helps you reduce stress and depression. Simply enjoy life by sharing smiles and laughs together. In a relationship, having a good conversation with your partner is the least you can do to keep your partner satisfied that you need and care for them.

Despite the fact that most people wish to have a good conversation, it's also a fact that most people struggle to have a nice conversation for many reasons. Most of the time, it is seen that people forget the basic rules of conversation, and if you're not practicing the rules, how can you expect the best?

Good conversation is not only important in relationships. It's also important in friendships and more importantly, at work. If there are some kind of barriers in a conversation between you and your employer, then you can't expect a promotion. If you really want to discuss it then I can write a book on the importance but I suppose that you already know how important it is to have a good conversation. What's more important right now is educating you on the rules that must be followed. Let's do that!

1 - Listen Carefully

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One of the fundamentals of having a good conversation is to be able to listen what your friend/partner/employee (or anyone with whom you are having a conversation) is saying. When we look around, we come to realize that listening is the most difficult thing to do while conversating because of the fact that most of us love to talk too much and rarely listen to the person who's sitting next to us.

No matter how difficult it is, you must listen carefully. When you're listening, you're actually learning new things that will definitely help you in the future. When you listen, you learn through the experience of your friend instead of committing a mistake on your own and learning from it (In other words, you become able to learn from your partner mistakes). Listening increases creativity and your mind will automatically be forced to provide a better solution to your partner.

2 - Make Proper Eye-Contact

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One of the worst things to do while your friend is talking to you is to start browsing Facebook, typing a text message, or reading a newspaper. Believe it or not, it annoys me a lot when I'm talking and my friends start doing another task instead of listening. Since it is better to speak on the spot, I usually forbid them on the spot with the warning "Or else I'm going back."

In other words, when you start multitasking, you make your partner feel like they are less important and reading a newspaper is more important than listening to his sad story. If you really want to have a nice conversation, make proper eye-contact and make him feel that you really care his time and feelings.

3 - Never Lie To Someone Who Trusts You

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If someone is having a conversation with you, it simply means that he trusts you. It is often seen that some people act like a know-it-all and lie a lot to someone who trusts them. Let me tell you, this is the worst thing that you can ever do. Imagine how embarrassing that moment would be when you are caught in a lie!

Sure, you could have a nice and long conversation by continuing to lie to your friend, but the day he finds that they were all lies, he won't ever trust you. If there's something that you don't know, it is much better to admit that you don't know instead of acting like a know-it-all. Don't feel embarrassed to admit that you don't know something because there's always a time when a person doesn't know something. Everyone learns with time and don't forget, we all were noobs once.

Following these golden rules will help you in having nice, long conversations with your loved ones. If you think that something important is missing, please don't hesitate to add it by commenting below.