Before you go and criticize others, look in your own mirror. Do you always pick the right action to take? Is it possible that you can make a difference in the outcome of a situation? Is your response predictable?
It's not something to be ashamed of but to be proud of for. When we criticize others, we are actually suggesting that we can do better than they can. We are saying that we can't do it as well as they can.
When we point out the faults of others, we aren't making any attempt to change the world. We are saying that it is our fault and we need to fix it. We have to take responsibility for our own actions. Even if we change our behavior, it doesn't change what we have done.
Your actions are the one's that matter. How you react to situations is up to you. The one thing that matters is that you choose to do the right thing.
Sometimes, when we criticize others we are blaming them. When we blame others, we are saying that we are unable to handle our own responsibilities. We are telling them that they are the reason that things don't go our way.
To blame others is to criticize yourself. When we criticize others, we are saying that we aren't good enough.
When we criticize others, we are denying ourselves the self-worth that comes from doing a good job. We are saying that we are incompetent or that we aren't good enough to be that person that we would like to be.
We choose who we are. The best way to choose is to look in your own mirror and see how you are behaving. If you see that you are choosing the wrong way then let's change.