My first affair..hasn't happened yet. Me calling my pastor, Hey pastor? Probably not a good time to tell my wife: you been talking about leaving so much recently, now would be a good time. Background, 25 year marriage 50 years old. Met my wife when I was 18. 2016 took our one and only marriage counseling, Christian counseling, and turned it into grief management because early 2017 my mother in law passed away.
My wife was pretty close to her mother. Enter the clean up woman. Long story short, $500 Westin in the parking lot of Lenox mall; complimentary bottle of champagne, strawberries dipped in chocolate. There goes that affair, whether it happens or not..chasing down the maitre d for a complimentary tube of toothpaste. Prognosis, probably go back to marriage counseling. No Westin. Hopefully take a year off from work with reading of last will and testament.