Divorce hurts

Divorce I believe wasn't in the mind when happily we say yes to our partners to establish family.
Family is made up of father, mother and children/child and this is biblically authorized that a man will come out from his father's house and a woman will come out from her father's house and both shall become one. This is the natural phonomenon that has become a hard nut for the scientists to crack that a man and a woman are not two but one.
As of the time of we promising to each other heaven on earth marriage, being joyous entering into marriage, calling family, friends and well wishes to honor our marriage celebration, we anticipated undying love, the best for our unborn children and peaceful ending.
The question is: what has happened? Why have our anticipations, hopes, faith and determination fail us? Why the divorce?
You want divorce thinking that you are free from you troubles and past but no, it is the beginning of you problem, do you know why? because marriage has to do with futuristic bond: the children, the marriage registrar underwent before marriage, the divorce proceedings in court, family, friends and people will never forget that there was once a marriage between you and your partner and your current status that you are a divorcee which you fill in documents.
Because you are comfortable to train your children without the help of your partner doesn't mean that these children will not blame you tomorrow for the divorce, you may ask how and the answers are: when a child grows the child asks whereabouts of the father or the mother, the morals of a child of a single parent cannot be same with a child of a complete home but if you don't think of your child's morals, have you thought about the kind of home your child may have? Definitely that your child may be a divorcee tomorrow because as the child was growing up the child never experience a father's love or a mother's love, nature does not give what it does not have.
No matter the pressure please say no to divorce, divorce is a temporary relief.