Daughter to celebrate the inner side of the outside.

Our father used to say, "Girls get married like a bowl of water" to describe the situation of women who have become "children of people." A married woman must know "to bear the river of her husband". A good wife has to do everything in the family, especially on big occasions like the Lunar New Year. Tet is a time when the sisters are "headache" most of the year because of the responsibility of a wife, daughter in law must be decent preparation for the whole family and relatives have a complete Tet. They have to take care of the rituals of worship, the dining table, the blessing and the "happy birthday" for the old and the young ... How many worries put on the woman's shoulder, perhaps only the new children Seeing the New Year only joy and the wife and mother also face many other worries.

And rightly so, sometimes they feel tired, tense each New Year. And the more they remember the Tet also have been with the parents, not worry too much, just enjoy the warm atmosphere, fun New Year's family. However, it is now a luxury dream because they have their own family, to fulfill the duties of a daughter-in-law, wife, mother.
If they are married to local people, the girls can visit their parents occasionally, but if they are married, they rarely get home, not to talk about foreigners to celebrate Tet. The geographic distance and all the other pressures make them only able to enjoy the New Year in the house, but the people there where the heart?
The modern day has changed a lot, the concept "definitely must eat New Year in the house" is not too strict as before. In many cases, the sisters and husband of husband and wife understand and understand, allowed to go home for Tet to eat. But the Tet in the home is not the only joy? Couples who are both loved and understood by the family will surely enjoy a Tet holiday as they wish. Sisters happily with her husband on the road to return home for Tet. Going home, parents do not see children for a long time, I also do not see her daughter to do a lot of hard work, son-in-law and grandchildren are welcome very warmly. The whole family is surrounded by cheerful, warm atmosphere. However, perhaps the case is still a few, most Vietnamese women often do not "dare" to foreigners in Tet even though they are allowed by the husband's family because they fear the mouth will say they are daughter in law , the wife does not know the thing, does not fulfill the obligations of baby strawberries. And also many couples have argued, friction just because "This year's New Year in the house or foreign?" The husband of a traditional thought, not understanding the heart of the wife and wife, he just demanded the right thing and want to "up" claim for equality ... And sometimes just one friction leads to unpredictable consequences, many couples almost broke up just because of ... Tet. Tet is a happy occasion, the time for people to gather together, showing love and concern for each other. Therefore, we should not make that joy break because of disagreement. Everything has its solution, you can completely find ways to fulfill obligations both at home and abroad during the Lunar New Year. Once the couple has consented, they can completely find a way to "complete the whole road," fulfilling duty with both sides of the family makes everyone happy. Many couples have a modern, civilized way of doing it. They planned to clear, such as this year to celebrate Tet in the home, to the 2nd on Tet fun with foreign; Next year we change back, first eat New Year in the house and then back home again in 2 days home.
With the way to do this, everything is shared fairly, both sides are enjoying each other in turn. Grandparents are happy, spouses and children are peaceful harmony and so the Tet will also be full of meaning!