Is it necessary for our society's mentality to create our children's future according to our preferences rather than allowing them to choose, bloom, and grow according to their potential and interests? I can argue that most, if not all, parents are attempting to reshape or, as you can say, design the future of their children in order to ensure that survival will always come first in all circumstances.
They wish to stop it since the causes are their own experiences, which make their lives bitter.
They don't want to expose their children to face those issues and trauma they have experienced in the past.
Is there a lack of trust or did most parents have faith in their own children's abilities?
Why don't we encourage our children to pursue their interests in order to succeed in both their personal and professional lives?
Then why not just we encourage them to engage in whatever makes them happy?
We are victims of our own dread of the worst happening to us as individuals or as a group in society. When we are fearful of exercising our free will, we are unable to pursue our passions, interests, or other activities that will make us happy and give us a sense of fulfilment.
When I was a child, my mother was always telling me what to do and what not to do, as well as what to dress and what not to wear that is not proper in her opinion. She actually made all of the decisions relating to my education; it's not about what I really want to do, it's about what she wants me to do professionally. I've always wanted to pursue a career in the arts so she enrolled me in business school on the grounds that I was unable to pursue a career in science as a doctor or engineer. Therefore, for me, attending business school and graduating as a successful graduate—a feat I already accomplished during my academic career—was the last. But in the midst of all, I found myself losing my enthusiasm while working to realise someone else's ambitions.