"Help me to find the girl I was dreaming about three nights in a row, and who loved me so much!" - Dream interpretation

in dreams •  7 years ago  (edited)

Excerpt: This may be the most frustrating thing, a dream in which you meet someone and you two love each other immensely. Alas, when you wake up you realize that it was "just" a dream. So frustrating! There is a higher meaning in such encounters and a very encouraging one, giving us a glimpse of the love that inherently resides within each of us, a love that once assimilated in our physical reality, transforms our life completely.


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Hi,

After last night I decided I had to find out what it was all about. I really need help to find the meaning of some things.

So, first of all, some details about myself: my name is Ron, I'm 28 years old, I just finished a bachelor's degree in geography specializing in the environmental studies. After graduation, I found myself unemployed for half a year. Since then I have found a minimum wage job, mostly working with unprofessional guys. Because of this situation, unfortunately, I still live with my parents.

Plus, I have always been a shy person, really shy. I'm quite introverted, do not talk much when I'm with my friends, I like listening more. In addition, I am really shy about making conversations with girls. I never had the courage to approach girls in pubs, clubs, or just like that on the street. Apart from a girlfriend who lived in Spain whom I saw once every four months for three years, I have not been in any serious relationship. In the past year, things have changed a bit, but that has nothing to do with it.

In recent weeks I have had four dreams, of which I remember parts. There was a girl who kept hugging me and wanted my closeness, and I felt she really loved me.

This girl was exactly my type, she had a very big and loving heart, and hugged me and loved without limitation (nothing sexual, just talks and hugs). This girl keeps telling me her name "[UNDISCLOSED FOR PRIVACY MATTERS – Nomad-magus]".

I do not know such a person in my life, and I have no idea where this girl came from and where this name got into my consciousness and dreams. I tried to look for her on Facebook, but the girls I saw there, under that name, were not like the girl from my dreams (in each dream she looked exactly the same).

I do not remember the other details of the dreams, so it might be problematic to interpret. But I'd be glad if you could somehow help me understand. Who is the girl, where did this name come from, why the name came into my life all of a sudden, what am I supposed to do with it.


I very much identify with what you wrote and have a similar story -

A few years ago, I dreamed that I was coming to some well-known city in the world (the details are not important). I'm at the airport. I arrive at the passport control booth to speak with the inspector and suddenly feel a very intense love for her and from her, a strong psychic attachment and physical attraction. We embrace, she smiles, I smile back. All good. At one point I asked her for her name and she told me, first and last name.

So what was the first thing I did after waking up?

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Facebook. I found some girls by the same name, I wrote to them, some replied, but nothing. No one was like her and no one dreamed of me that night, none of them was from the same city either. In short - nothing. I forgot about it.

After a few months, I was contacted by someone I used to know from the same distant city. In addition, there was something symbolic about her that connected to the girl's name. Then I made the connection and interpreted my dream for myself. The conclusions I have reached may be relevant to you too.

First, the girl in your dream represents a deep inner consciousness that exists fundamentally within you. Simply put, your soul used the image of that girl to convey to you the message that you are loved. From what you describe it is obvious that you need to know that you are very loved, appreciated, special, and charming. While this feeling of "being loved" is the natural privilege of every human it is very difficult for people to accept that. Your soul asks you to feel that love within you. Even when you're awake. Especially then.

This in itself will make the changes in the circumstances of your life. Another message is - do not compromise. Do not enter into a relationship when the emotional motif you felt in the dream is missing. The goal in life is not to be in a relationship for the sake of a relationship. Remember this.

As for that specific girl - since you've been dreaming about her a few times, why don't you ask her, in the dream, for her identity, and if you two will ever meet and when? Try to get as many details as possible. Ask her if you need to do something to meet her in the waking reality. If you do not get answers, or if you are not conscious enough to ask, I recommend you take the issue totally out of your head, focus on your feelings and emotions and let your life flow. Things will unfold as they should.


Thank you very much. It's amazing how dreams can affect you. In those dreams, I felt such a strong feeling for that girl that I have never felt before, not even towards my ex.

Does my dream really mean that I'm loved by someone? I wish it was so easy to find someone who would love me in such a crazy way.

But I have a question - how can I, in the dream, make myself aware enough to think of questions and ask her? How can I get back to that dream in order to meet her again? And will I really receive genuine answers?


The feeling you felt was stronger than ever before because this love comes from within you, from the source of your soul. It's true love. Any love that you will ever feel towards another human being will be based on this sourced love.

Rest assured, there is indeed someone who loves you very much. Do not doubt it. You are now preparing yourself to meet that person and she prepares herself for you. The dreams help you to process and assimilate the changes you are going through!

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How can one be lucid in a dream? It takes some practice. Before you fall asleep, say to yourself, "Tonight I will be aware in my dreams, I will know that I am dreaming." On the first night you may not be successful but keep practicing. Only practice brings results. Moreover, you can go back to the same place in a dream! Just tell yourself before you go to sleep that this is what you want. However, it is important not to exert too much mental pressure. That is, do not think about it too much. It will happen, by itself. When you put too much effort you create a screen of thoughts that blocks you from reaching your destination in the dream.

And above anything else, trust in yourself, trust in the process and trust that everything unfolds for you appropriately.

Goodluck!

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Dream is like a virtual reality, we all have a dream, either it is a nightmare or a blessing to us. But the dream is just a dream without execution. Stop dreaming and do it anyways no matter what happen. Dream is just a hint and a sign that it is time to "do it"! If you are dreaming to that woman go find her it doesn't matter how she looks, but what most important is don't give up looking at her.

Since the I had a dream and got the confirmation immediately I opened my eyes, I dare not call any dream a mare dream again.

Dreams are powerful, it's a way of unfolding the unknown to us.

Your dream is meaningful and @namdlad-magus has done well with the interpretation as well.

Let me just add this little note to it.

You need to take your mind off it, do not be troubled by it at all, but be more conscious of the happenings in your environment and ensure you have her picture in your mind as well. Somebody very close to you might have been manifesting the quality you saw in her, but if you don't allow rest to take over your mind, you won't see her.

And again, the name she gave to you in your dream my not follow the order of her name in reality, in fact people might not know her with that name. So, stay focus and don't get confused.

You dream is a good pointer of what's next in your life, that's why it keep repeating itself. Be open minded.

Wise words, mate👍

but if you don't allow rest to take over your mind, you won't see her.

Thanks for the compliment...

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Once you’re committed to going out and meeting women, let me give you the magic recipe to become a Heartbreak Kid (HBK):

Hit on every pretty woman you meet. Engage, ask questions, compliment them. See if they’re receptive. If you’ll never see her again, ask her out - even on the first encounter - who cares, you’ll never see her again anyway. Shoot for the moon. If you’ll see her again, ask her out within 2 weeks tops to avoid entering the friend zone.
Be rejected and persevere. Expect rejection. It comes with the territory of meeting the one for you. Remember, you only need to strike gold once.
Kash - You’ll need to make money to be attractive. Money can buy you nice clothes, a car, dinner and confidence. Don’t think that you’ll be a great catch without being financially stable.
Good luck!

Don’t think that you’ll be a great catch without being financially stable.

Hmm...looking back, my experience was different. Although I was poor and with no money at all, I have met amazing ladies whose company enriched my life tremendously. The secret was that it never crossed my mind that money should stand between me and a loving relationship.

Everyone has the right to love anyone in their own way. But there is nothing more painful than an unrequited love.

When all the effort you have done to get his heart, strives to create the best possible relationship, give attention, energy and time, but he still does not respect you, will you still survive and humble begging for love?

Hey beautiful .. admonish this.

When he does not respect you, whatever you do he will not see. Instead he will only look at you low, like a slave who begs to remain enslaved rather than released.

If you are unappreciated, go. Never count how much tears flow. Just calculate your footsteps, how far you can go from him, then God will reward your step with happiness someday.

Never think negatively that karma will come to him. Needless to say. No need to say. All will happen by itself. Because God is never unfair to play his role.

You do not have to hurt yourself by doing stupid things that hurt yourself just for the sake of him who has obviously ignored you. Your world is not just him. Your life is not to worship him.

Do not wish her love someone who does not know how to treat someone who likes her. Rest assured, If someday you will be met with someone who will always appreciate your whole life.

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MY DREAMING GIRL:

this article remembered my old story,,About 5 years ago,,i made a relation with a girl,,That was my 1st relation...this relation stayed on 1 month,,i really loved her,,but family problem ,,this was not stayed,,I got shocked,,,nothing was not liked by me,,i saw dream every night with her,,,Days passed,,i hoped she will come,,,she also loved me a lot,,but family pressure ,,she didn't contact me,,,weekend time she messaged me once,,days passed about 3 years from this event,,I taught a student on a deep night,,on that Night i saw her and addressing her name,,i felt so nervous when my student asked !!!!i didn't understand whom he know that name...then he told me that night event,,,After that day,,i found her on the Facebook request me to accept ,,,that's my story and got her in my life ...


I hope you will find your dreaming girl.. @nomad-magus

I loved your personal sroty👍

For me, since you are a shy type of person and you are already 28 years old but sad to say , you don’t have a serious relationship yet, you’re subconscious tells you that there is someone who loves you unconditionally. Maybe you knew her already but hadn’t recognize the presence or maybe it tells you that sooner you will find the right girl for you. Sometimes,dreams could be true. So, maybe someday ,you will meet that girl which is exactly the name that the dream mention. Coz I knew someone before that she wanted to marry a man that named want she wanted. Fortunately, after a long years,she really got married to a man that was exactly what she dreamed for. So, just take it easy and continue your goals coz if that is for you,it will be given to you.
Thanks for sharing @nomad-magus I enjoyed reading your post.

After graduation, I found myself unemployed for half a year. Since then I have found a minimum wage job,...

So many people are in the same situation. Especially in the US, where students take an overinflated loan sponsored by our government.
I’m a shy person as well and sometimes if I want to do something, but my conciseness doesn’t allow me, I use this so called “21 seconds rule”. I use this short time to do something I normally wouldn’t. It does work. I think it’s very hard to plan (not impossible as you mentioned) any questions for your dream about this girl, if it comes back. If you dream and at the same time are conscious about remembering what to ask for, it’s not a dream anymore. Does it make sense? I think, I’m a bit behind in this kind of “preparation for a dream”. But as you said “practice”. I do feel with this guy, because I had similar dream in my past. If it’s meant to be, they will find each other eventually.

If you dream and at the same time are conscious about remembering what to ask for, it’s not a dream anymore. Does it make sense?

it's called a lucid dream
איזה חלום ! אני חושבת שייעצת נכון לבחור כך אני מרגישה באופן אינטואיטיבי. מעניין למה לעיתים תחושות בחלום הן חזקות יותר מהתחושות במציאות ? לי בכל אופן פעמים רבות שרגשות בחלום הם עוצמתיים מאשר במציאות, עצב, שמחה, כאב..

שאלה במקום!
להבנתי יש להפריד בין רגש האהבה שהוא דומננטי מאוד בחלומות ומבטא חיבור ברמה נפשית עמוקה, לבין תחושות של עצב, תסכול, ופחד שמקורן במיינד. הסיבה שתחושות אלו מועצמות בחלום היא שהמסננים שאנחנו רגילים להפעיל בחיי הערות לא קיימים כשהמיינד רדום. וטוב שכך, כי באופן הזה אנחנו מתוודעים למה שבאמת מתחולל בפנים.
תודה על המשוב :-)

בכיף דוד, אתה מאלה שאני מכירה בסטימאיט שמביא תכנים שמדברים אלי...

כי בקריפטו למשל אני ממש בור ועם הארץ.
אני אפילו לא נכנסת לכל התכנונים של איך מצביעים ומה עושים ומה לא עושים כדי לא להפסיד או להרוויח אני פשוט זורמת ומתייחסת לעניין בקלילות כאילו אני רושמת איזה יומן חיים ועל הדרך נהנית מהצצה בתכנים שמעניינים אותי אצל אחרים.

כל זאת כיוון שהציגו לי (הבן שלי) את הפלטפורמה כמבוזרת ושאם יום אחד פייסבוק יחסם אז ישאר לי משהו מכאן.

The dreams you had are so touching, I must confess. I know exactly how it feels when such happens in one dreams because it has also happened to me several times.. I always dream of a particular girl but ever since I have never met this girl I been dreaming of, the advice you been given in the article can help you find this girl and I also think I have to take note of the advice to see if it can as well help me to find mine too. I have to learn how to be conscious in my dreams so I can control my dreams by myself. However, we also have many things in common @nomad-magus. I find it extremely difficult to approach girls in public and I'm also a shy type.

Do take note though that I was reciting a dream from someone else. 🙂

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Is this your art @jakir007?

Thanks for sharing that kind of dream at the platform.

I am growing into this gift of dream interpretation and i have to say something about this kind of dream the big man has put to us here.
These are dream which normally start in small way and they seenm unreal but in actual sense, the Spirit of the Lord is communicating to you but needs to grow into into it but allowing your inner person to become perceptive to this kind of awareness when it comes to such dreams.

We normally think these dreams where we encounter ladies especially those you have never met before, it is always clear cut that there are people ahead of time the Lord is position to step in your paths so that you can intimately relate but at a Spiritual level and normally these dreams show that there people interested in becoming you very close friends. Why am i saying this, there are dreams we get having affairs with people we have not met before or if not may be even just mere friends not that you are attracted to them but it is a clear those people are going to be your very close friends to you just give it time.

Actually that kind of dream means that there are people coming to you in just a short while who will turn up being very good friends and in other words it is a prophetic kind of dream showing you what is a head of time concerning spiritual kind of relationship with people in eternal perspective.

I am fascinated with your posts and now I will be reciting this daily

"Tonight I will be aware in my dreams, I will know that I am dreaming."
I want to experience time travel in my dreams.😊
I greatly appreciate that you're sharing this @nomad-magus.😊

I want to experience time travel in my dreams.😊

Go for it👍

that's call "sweet dream".....hahahhaha :)

Haha... Indeed, the sweetest!

hahahahha.... :)

Hello dear friend, again nourishing myself with your publications, I would like to comment that I had a similar dream, which I have not repeated, but it was a dream that was very marked in my mind, dreams, according to what you describe, can be a useful tool to alleviate some torments, I would love to continue learning from them...

How can one be lucid in a dream? It takes some practice. Before falling asleep, say to yourself: "Tonight I will be conscious in my dreams, I will know that I am dreaming".

I need to have a little more awareness in my dreams and try to decipher the information that is there for me, I am sure that someone loves me and that at some point I will have the opportunity to grow sentimentally, while I prepare to enjoy those moments, thank you for your help, if I have mistakes, we can blame the translator because I do not speak English, happy night.

I will continue to publish posts about dreams in general and dreams interpretations, in which you may find answers to your queries. In addition, there are many books you can refer to, as guiding assistants.
Thank you for your warm comment 🙂

It's a pleasure for me to read you, I'm learning a lot, thank you for responding.

why is it always about girls... dreams can be of fire, devil, earthquake, blood too ???

When you fall in love you realize that girls/boys are all those and more 😉

I personally think ...
When dreaming, our subconscious mind shows how our mind understands the world in conceptual form. The mind shows our fears and desires - even when we do not expect to see them. When a person you like or a woman you've ever met is present in your dreams, you might, yes maybe, can start asking yourself why you dream about it, why it comes in your dreams. The Person in Your Dream That Has Important Meaning When you are dreaming of a woman who once knew you or maybe your childhood friend, that woman may have a deep and deep sense of importance for you. As you dream of it, it's better to focus on what you're going to do next and not just why you dream it. That Dreamer is the Person Who Wants You to Make an Okay Companion, maybe a cliche. But it could be that the figure that is present in the dream is a figure who really really want you to make a companion of your life. If you want to really make the figure in your dreams as the true soulmate of your dreams, do something soon. Because who knows that the figure is near you and can be a complement to your happiness by acting as a companion of your life in the real world.

This may be true if the person you dream of is accessible to you.

The differences between men and women also exist in dreams, which should not be caught by surprise. They affect the content, because while the male sector tends to dream of aggressions, women have complex dreams with more details and characters and usually do so with both sexes alike. Men dream more of men, twice as many as girls.

It may seem somewhat unusual, but about 2 out of every 10 dreams we have (and remember) are in black and white. There is this small percentage of the population that dreams without any color, although the research says that we tend to dream in pastel shades instead of vivid colors like those we see in our day to day wherever we look.

... The source for your info, my friend?

Truly, big dreams do start very small. That is actually how any dream begins and it develops over time depending on how passionate you are about what your desire is. Passion to achieve anything is very important, because passion is like the gas of a car, dreams don't move without it.So if you have some dreams you want to achieve, whether they're small or big, makes sure you add some passion along with it, in order for that dream to go anywhere. You do need love for what you are doing, because love is like the oil of a car, it lubricates your path as well as the vision to believe that what you are working on is possible.

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@nomad-magus Please follow this rules i hope you must be find your dream girl.
You might be used to saying "I want to find the woman of my dreams" but you need to know what this means for you, such as what her personality is, what she likes/dislikes or even looks like.

Think of key personality traits you consider important in a lifelong partner. Loyalty, generosity, fun-loving, outgoing, focused, and so forth. Which of your own personality traits do you want matched?
Think of the values you'd like this person to hold. Do you want her to have similar values to your own? Or, are you okay with her having quite different ones from you?
Consider your faith or lack of it. Does your ideal woman need to be of the same faith? Also consider family values––what are yours and in what way must hers match those?
What interests would you like this person to have? Does she have to have the same interests as you? Or would you prefer she had completely different interests, or a mixture of both? Is it enough that she's willing to learn about your interests?
Be frank with yourself about appearance. How important a factor is this? Might it be holding you back from finding someone with an amazing personality?
Be a devil's advocate. What sort of things do you not want in your ideal partner? What would you be willing and not willing to compromise about?

@nomad-magus sir
i think your dream is so a great signal of true love ..
i wish you will gain your love soon...your dream is so great no doubt ,,,
love in dream is so great for a man and women ..its a great mirror of real life thoughts ..i appreciate your draem..one day dream is to be true no doubt .thanks for shaRE our life ,imagination and draem share ,,thanks dear @nomad-magus

Thank you sooo much for your help.. I was sleeping and when I woke up, I saw a notification of your help. I will sure keep you updated once we meet.. <3 <3 Thank yoou again!!! :) It is really a great help! :) :)

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Love is blind,,Love is everywhere,,Love is pure,,Love is emotion,,your dreaming girl is on your heart,,Feeling for her shows your love,,I wish you find her soon,,i believe it so,,God also help pure lover ..god must create for you a partner,,.
@nomad-magus

Women are creatures of God who resilient patience far above men
He will be faithful if he feels comfortable and some are protecting him.
Because his weakness is he needs a place to lean
if tired and sheltered if the rain or the heat that loved him born and inner.
Men who can give advice, attention like a tree that stands firmly with leafy leaves tirelessly provide shade for the lean and shelter under it,
then he will always win the hearts of women. Women will be uncomfortable with men who do not have a stand let alone often scold women. Like a boat with passengers and nahkodanya. If the passenger is female then the captain is the man himself, the passenger will be comfortable if he knows his nahkodanya will take him where, when the storm hit the middle of the sea life there passengers need confidence from nahkodanya if he will be okay.
Without having to say but with the definite steps of the rescue he had planned and done then this passenger would have believed that he was in the right boat. Women love praise and also appreciate correction if delivered with affection
@nomad-magus

There are all sorts of dream interpretations, Freud's being the most notorious, but I have always believed they served a simple eliminatory function, and not much more - that dreams are the psyche's way of taking a good dump every now and then...I believe that dream is the dreamer's own psychical act..

Thanks...for suggest me... @nomad-magus

Thanks @nomad-magus it is great to know that he is loved but according to me I think God is showing him that it is time for him to find the life partner but if God has already given him the name of his partner then let him relax because before God speaks anything everything is under control so let him pray for guidance am so sure God will do it he is trust worthy

You have Great trust within you!

then let him relax

Indeed. trust is the key element here.

oh
its so great post of love
there are two part of life
1..imaginary
2.real
i mean imaginary dint to held for real life content..love is the fact of this two world..whwn we fall in love we find it our heart and we keep it with great imagination in dream..i thinkyou will get your love soon no doubt,,keep it up

Love is a spritual fact. It's a thing which can make your dream fantastic. Everybody should take the enjoyment of love. It's a great feeling.

dear @nomad-magus sir
love is the part of a man life ,,,dream is ao component of a love.
no doubt dream is a psychological remaining ...when a boy fall in love its increasing the psychological thinking no doubt and its turn into dream..
i wish you will get your love ,,,

Everyone has a dream. From a dream that he will study and work to achieve. Me and you too have a dream. @nomad-magus

Thanks for sharing with us💟

I am looking at your post images of a woman hugging a man, whether or not that person is the same "to divide

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One of my friends says I shouldn’t be on the lookout for other artists; I’m a well-meaning hot mess of hyper-sensitive, creative, narcissistic neuroses. People with creative drives tend to be like that, blatantly or subtly, and apparently two of those together won’t usually result in a successful relationship. But I have a thing for people who make music and/or pretty pictures. It would be nice to hang out on Saturdays and you’ll paint while I write. This will only work, though, if you’re good and/or excessively passionate with your craft. And if that’s the case, odds are I will start calling you a genius about three weeks in and laude you with so much praise that your productivity and also arrogance will triple.

Man can not live without love
Love is essential in our lives
I wish you to find your dreams
Really great article

YOur dreams and its interpretation is simply amazing and fantastic.

Dreams are the result of the unconscious being released into freedom A woman who has given you a warm thing in a dream, and in real life senses your sincere feelings. Do not hide your emotions, and your lover will surely answer you with reciprocity.

i find out this girl but you should provide a Microscope Please :p

I am very inspired with your post, can be taken a good lesson@nomad-magus

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Truly extraordinary. In addition to the interesting photos, the style of writing is very unique and the plot is difficult to guess :)

I am reminded of Abraham Maslow's theory of basic human needs. one of the basic human needs is to love and be loved.

Many things are inspired through dreams.

Beliefs simplify the thinking process. Just believe there must be someone who really loves me.

The dream is really amazing

The fact you listen and believe what anyone tells you about what you should want and believe, it is one of the biggest mistakes you can ever do in life.
I am not the perfect person to advise anything to you, but I can tell you how amazing we all are with different gifts ready to be developed over time as you enhance your abilities to adapt and generate an amazing reality.
The universe will give you anything you desire, do not doubt on yourself and believe in your ideas and dreams that will change your life forever. There are still lessons to learn and if you fall and get up every time, you will change you life and you will be an example for others along the way. Many blessings to all!