Do You Have People in Your Life who are Constant Complainers and Whiners ?? Simple, Get Rid of Them !!

in dtube •  6 years ago 


Me and my wife went out with some friends ( or more so acquaintances to be honest) They are known to be whiners and moaners about everything. Well sure enough they were complaining about this and that and most everything in their lives.

Well we should have known better than to associate with them. ( But figured on giving them a chance ) And I personally stopped their complaining by offering solutions to issues they were bitching about and presented with more positive points about the issues they were complaining about.

But I just I truly think there are some people in this World that really "get off" with moaning and groaning about Life and how unfair it can be. It gives them a rush of some kind and makes them feel better about themselves :(

My best advice is to limit the amount on time you spend with these people even if it means ending a relationship and cutting ties.

Dealing with family members who are perpetual complainers can really be a challenge because you may have no choice but to be around them sometimes. But you can always limit the time and work in strategies to help you do exactly this !


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I really don't like to hang out with people who like to complain ... but my own mother is someone who likes to complain about her health. I have no choice but have to hear her complaint. Because after all she is my mother. indeed my mother's health has deteriorated lately. But I always advised her for praying to the God.

Yes! We can always choose who we hang out with!

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I think you first need to talk with such people, discuss their behaviors and attitudes towards life, if it does not help, then it is better to leave.

Yup, that is a good idea to teach others how to behave. But you have your own life to waste. Don't waste it on other assho|es (unless you care about them for some reason). If you leave them out they'll figure it out by themselves. If won't - tough luck.

Wonderfully done buddy, the truth is we all have these kinda people in our lives definitely sometimes they can definitely linger a lot but eventually when we try they'll go

A tip from me I might have told you from my experience of life
Do not try to please everyone
few will stay in your life
@robertandrew

I think so we have to compare them with god beacause of them we are getting our weak points and we can develop our self.

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Sadly those people in my life are people I work with, so there isn't much chance that I can just get rid of them. There are certain areas of work that I purposely avoid because as soon as you enter into them all you can hear is people complaining about this or that. It is really hard to deal with sometimes. In fact there are some people that I think would die if they didn't have something to complain about, so I typically make a decision on something knowing what their reaction will be. I am just doing my part to keep them alive though!