I really like this. For me it is so easy to loose focus and focus on other people and justify it as "not being selfish", which is such a trap. No one benefits from a weak version of yourself. Thanks, I enjoyed this read, and feel like it's about time to "man up" now. Will see! Edited: I just read your description of what a good comment looks like in one of your other posts. Turns out, I need to add a photo. So here it is!