Little Changes, Big Difference: Cloth Diapers

in ecotrain •  7 years ago 

There has always been a bit of dissension within environmental movements as to the relevance or usefulness of small changes. Those involved in large movements or massive changes requiring essentially leaving the mainstream of society have been known to turn their noses up at things like recycling or LED lights. In both cases, though, I would say we have seen a massive shift where, at least in the US, these are now nearly universal practices, and that does make a significant difference. So, I have decided to start a series called Little Change, Big Difference detailing some things you can easily do right now to reduce your footprint that can actually make a big difference, especially on a larger cultural scale.

So here we go. Babies are enormous resource hogs. At least that’s the case in the US. You “need” so many different things for babies that people have to have parties and subject themselves to awful games just to be able to afford them. I think almost any parent can tell you that you don’t need probably ¾ of that crap. And that is bad enough. So. Much. Wasted. Plastic!


No one needs that much stuff! Also, the serious gendering. Ugh. Source

However, nothing even comes close to disposable diapers.They are an absolute environmental nightmare. Do you know how long it takes a disposable diaper to biodegrade? Me neither. No one does. The first ones ever made still haven’t broken down. Guesses range from 200 - 500 years, and that’s in ideal conditions, which a landfill is not. So what’s in those things anyway? Of course their are natural ones made of paper and cotton, some are even labeled biodegradable or compostable. I always wonder about that label, though. Everything is biodegradable. It’s a matter of how long it takes. Anyway. Most of them are plastic with cotton (bleached, of course) and these little gel beads that absorb liquid. We’ll talk more about those disgusting things later. Potentially the worst bit is what the babies deposit into the diapers. If you read the fine print on diaper packages, you will find you are actually supposed to dump the poop from the diaper into the toilet. Of course most people don’t even know that, and all that ends up in a landfill. Human feces wrapped in gel, bleached cotton, and plastic sitting in a landfill for at least 200 years. Gross. There’s a reason we developed sewage treatment systems. Composting toilets are even better, but sitting in a diaper in a landfill is definitely the bottom of the barrel in how to properly dispose of feces.


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And the sheer numbers are absolutely staggering. Every single baby goes through somewhere in the neighborhood of 7000 diapers over the course of their diapering career. Above is a charming visual of just one year's worth before being filled, but the reality of them sitting dirty, spread throughout a landfill mixed in with the rest of the mess of stuff we throw away is so much worse, leaching whatever may be in the poop and of course the chemicals in the diaper itself into the ground. So much plastic. So much bleached cotton and paper. So many gross little gel beads. About those beads. Sodium polyacrylate. It’s a petroleum based super absorbent polymer. It’s the stuff that was banned from tampons because it caused toxic shock syndrome. It can also cause skin irritations and allergic reactions. And for those of you who may be lucky enough to have one of those babies that really loves tearing diapers from their body, should that diaper get ripped open, that stuff is disgusting and very difficult to clean up, especially on carpet. I cared for an elder who passionately hated his diapers, and I awoke to this lovely vision many mornings. And while we are talking about toxins, it’s notable to mention two more big monsters. Dioxin, a by-product of paper bleaching is released into the environment during the bleaching process and also remains in the bleached paper. It is one of the most carcinogenic substances known to man. The other big offender is Tributyl-tin, which is a known hormone disrupter. Here's a lot more facts about disposables from the Real Diaper Association

Now that we are super clear on how dangerous disposables are, let’s talk about your options. Like so many things in the eco-world, the myth of the difficulty is way exaggerated. My mom used cloth because my brother was allergic, and she swears that folding up flat diapers using magical mommy origami and closing that up with pins was also not hard, but thankfully, it is not even that hard anymore. Their are loads of different options now, and none of them require pins. I can change a cloth diaper as fast or faster than a disposable one. You will also save a lot of money. Laundering is not complicated. I used to do a load twice a week, and I had two in diapers at the same time. Rinse, wash, rinse, rinse. I never used bleach or any kind of harsh detergents. Everything I used was all natural. If this grosses you out, try a diaper service. This will cost you about the same as disposables, and it’s even easier than disposables because your service will bring clean diapers to your door every single week. You don’t even have to leave your house. I used to own a diaper service, and even then I used no bleach or harsh detergents. I used a super pure form of oxy cleaner and the simplest detergent I have ever found. Not all services are like that though, so ask questions. One of the most important things to realize with laundering is that sanitation happens from water temperature, not bleach. Bleach has very weak sanitizing properties on fabric, whereas 170 degree water does a pretty awesome job of sanitizing. Bleach’s only purpose is stain removal, which I accomplished quite nicely with the oxy cleaner. Even though the services drive around to pick up and deliver, they are still lower footprint than washing your own because those diapers are used for multiple babies and washed in economies of scale. When the diapers get a few stains, depending on the service, they may be used for a discount service, sold at a very discounted price to either moms looking for cheap diapers or car washes looking for the best rags on earth, or donated to charitable organizations. I closed the service more than three years ago and just tossed the last rag that was finally shredded beyond use a couple weeks ago.

Cloth diapers really are a very simple change, especially if you use a diaper service. And it’s a tremendous difference. 27 billion disposable diapers go to the landfill every year in the US alone. All the diapers I bought for my first lasted through my second, so they’re good for hundreds of uses. Healthier baby, healthier planet, fatter wallet! I’m not saying people are bad for using disposable diapers. Parenting is hard, and we all have to do what we have to do in order to make it through. I used more than a few disposables over the years, and many of my friends used only disposables. I do, however, want to make sure everyone is aware that cloth diapering is really not as hard as people make it out to be, and disposables are far more damaging to both the environment and baby’s health than most people realize. At least now you can make an informed decision!

In every single post of this series I’m also going to talk about solar. There are two reasons for this. One is that I work in solar, so more people going solar in the US, Canada, and Australia means more food on our table and maybe even a vacation! The other reason is people still believe it is hard to go solar. Or prohibitively expensive. Neither of those things are true! Like cloth diapers, going solar is way easier than people realize. You don’t have to change all your appliances or get rid of half your electronics. Solar is way more efficient than it once was, and by going with a grid tied system, you are ensured of seamless operation. Then, in a couple years when battery prices fall the way solar panels have, you can buy a big battery bank and completely divorce your utility company. Until then, the monthly payment for your solar system will be similar or less than what you’re currently paying for dirty coal. Clean, happy sunshine for the same price or less. It’s a good deal. It requires no change in your lifestyle and little to no change in your expenses. I think we can all agree that getting off coal and natural gas will make a big difference.

As always, all pics are mine or pixabay unless otherwise noted.

I’m a passenger on the @ecotrain, as well as a member of @teamgirlpowa and @steemmamas. All three are worth taking a look at, and all three are on discord.

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yes this is a great idea for a series, we all need to make conscious decisions to reduce the amount of waste in out lives, diapers7nappies is a great start. I look forward to following this great series.
Hope you are doing ok mama, sending you much love and light xxx

Thanks. I thought it would be nice to give people some simple ideas to feel more empowered in making a change. Ultimately destroying capitalism and patriarchy will make the most difference, but those are hard to wrap your brain around.
I'm doing a bit better, mama. Thanks for asking.

Hi @solarsupermama,
Been there, my own kiddo is now 28. But I remember those diaper years really really well.

We did cloth. We never used a service. We soaked them, rinsed them, then put them in the washing machine on hot-hot-hot setting. Yeah it was gross, those first steps of the process.

Later we went to plastic. After a while a couple just gets too exhausted and spread too thin and plastic is a convenient way to save a little time. That's when blurry-eyed mom and dad don't even give it a second though when they save so much time.

A lot of families in the US, even if they stay together, are doing it all alone -- with no extended family support. Such was our case. It was just the two of us.

And about all those cheap plastic toys. I hear you. That was our thinking too. A few toys, but of good quality. Unfortunately, it didn't turn out that way. Even little kids at an early age pick up on TV commercials. And they get mesmerized by that crap. Which battles do parents chose? Not that one. Like everyone else, we had so much plastic crap that you couldn't walk around at night barefoot.

Now that I think back, I'm not apologizing for any of it, even the plastic juice boxes when we could have easily filled a sippy bottle with the same juice. We did what we had to do to make it through those baby years, blurry-eyed n' all.

I hate to lay it on you like that, but that's the way it was. Now that she's all grown up, I can afford to live an environmentally conscious life. Keyword being "afford".
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Without a doubt we gotta do what we gotta do to make it through, especially, like you said, when we are without community. I never support martyrdom parenting. Mostly i want people to know modern cloth diapers are so much easier than they used to be and such an awesome money saver.
I stopped fighting the plastic toy fight pretty quick too. I was mostly talking about all the unnecessary gear. Different people need different things, but i never used the crib or a changing table or a baby bath. I had friends that never used a stroller, but i loved mine. Loved the baby carrier too, but i used both. Giving up the crib meant not Having to buy a whole bunch of stuff. I think people would be wise to think on what they really need and not buy stuff they wont use.

I hope yours grow up to be as fantastic as mine.

Well, the 20 and 16 yo's are fantastic. Time will tell on the 6 and 4 yo's.

This is one of the little things that definitely matters but we rarely talk about.

I am unmarried guy but I have always imagine the kind of nightmares those diapers give my neighbours. And I used to notice a heap of them from far on my way to and from work (people just dumped them). It was terrible, as that was my fastest route to work. I got the idea how difficult it is to dispose those thing or make them decompose.

Great post in every way!

PS : @solarsupermama it will be okay to add the source to the last picture.

Youre right. It matters a lot. Its a big chunk of the trash in this world, and its almost entirely unnecessary.
I will edit to put the source on the last pic. I put at the bottom that all pics are mine or pixabay unless otherwise sourced, but i see how it's confusing since the others are sourced. Thanks for stopping by.

I started out using cloth diapers but my son ended up having sensitive skin and the diapers from the diaper service kept giving him a rash. There's no longer a diaper service even available around here anymore even if parents wanted to opt for a service. Our trash goes to a waste to energy facility where it gets burned...but one still has to wonder if their system catches all the burn off from burning so many different type of garbage.

When i owned a diaper service, i used to really push other services to use really simple stuff to clean, but some still insisted on chemicals. Of course some babies are just very sensitive. One thing i used to do is offer a liner that was disposable that could be used with cloth and would keep baby drier. Still something disposable but much less, and they were flushable! I sold my service when we moved, and i was just crushed when the people who bought it closed it. It's such a valuable service.
I do like the waste to energy facilities. It's such a good idea. I wonder about all the burn off too, though. Burning plastic is so nasty. And i dont even wanna think about burning all that gel stuff. I used to live next door to these people that burned old tv sets. Honestly. It was super gross.

Some figures in your post are alarming:

  • 200-500 years for a diaper to biodegrade!

  • A baby goes through 7,000 diapers in its lifetime?

And I never knew we are supposed to dump the poop in the toilet before disposing of the diaper. I usually just wrap everything up and discard.

Scary, isnt it?! Ranges on how many diapers a baby uses go from 6000-10,000, but i figure the low end is more honest. It is definitely good to be aware.

Definitely scary. I believe this figure is correct though as I have an 18 months who's still on diaper. She uses 5-6 daily, more on days when she's teething and stooling a lot.

Right. It changes a lot over time. When theyre tiny its an incredible lot of diapers. The other thing i neglected to mention about cloth is that cloth diapered babies learn to use the potty 6 mos to a year earlier because they feel the wet. That can make a big difference in the numbers.

That is great, I love that you spread the knowledge about cloth diapers. I have always been using them for my baby boy, so happy about that dicision!

I loved them, and there are super cute prints to boot. I really want to get across to people they arent as hard as people think.

You are doing such a great job!!

Thank you! I really appreciate the encouragement!

I wish more new parents would use a diaper service. Those disposables are nasty. Cloth was good enough for our parents, which I am beginning to think left a smaller footprint than we are. Fresh air with the windows open, hanging clothes on the line to dry. Great post. 🐓🐓

Me too. A lot of them ended up closing in the 80's and 90's. So few people were using cloth. Surely don't wanna go back in time, but we could stand to bring back a few good ideas. A diaper service really and truly makes life easier for a mother and the world a better place. Thanks for stopping by. Glad you enjoyed the post!!

Ahhh a woman after my own heart. :)
I have to admit, several years ago, when my last one was in diapers, I was using those gross disposables. We have had a change in lifestyle now, and I would definitely use cloth diapers now if I had a baby. We use family cloth now, rather than toilet paper, and I use mama cloth instead of pads. It truly is easier than you would think, and not gross at all. ♥

Always when we know better we do better! My mission is to help people understand how easy it is!

Fantastic!
Absolutely! If you know better, then you do better! I only wish I knew back then what I know now! Constantly learning and striving to do better. ♥

That's all we can do for sure. Can't do what we don't know, and honestly, we wouldn't have been able to handle what we know now when we didn't know it. At least I think so!