"My husband has normal erections at night, in the morning, at the thought of making love, and during foreplay, but not at the time of penetration, why? Does he no longer want me?" asks Alexandra, 59. Dr Catherine Solano, sexologist and andrologist at Cochin hospital, replied.
When a man has good erections in the morning and at night, it is a sign that his arteries and nerves, that is to say all the physical circuit necessary for a normal erection, is working. So it means that your husband's body is functional. So, if her body is working, why does her erection stop at the time of penetration? The answer is probably obvious: because of stress. If he is anxious at the time of penetration, this triggers an adrenaline rush. And adrenaline being an anti erection hormone, the erection stops immediately.
What you need to know...
Stress at the time of penetration is caused by performance anxiety. Your husband is afraid that he will not be able to get an erection or maintain it long enough. He is afraid of not satisfying you, of not being up to it ... This is when the stress is maximum, because he says to himself: "I have to get there." This thought triggers stress ... and breakdown. The problem is that this failure increases stress. During the next sexual intercourse, he can feel more anxious while thinking: "The last time, I did not arrive there, provided that it works today ..." A pressure is added, and he enters a circle vicious of stress and breakdowns.
Here's what you can do ...
A frequent erectile dysfunction
This erectile dysfunction is very common in men, sometimes starting from a simple occasional breakdown due to fatigue or an evening too drunk for example. Some men calmly fall asleep saying to themselves: "It will be better tomorrow, I was not in shape, that's all", and their erections will continue to do well afterwards.
Other men say to themselves for example: "I am 53 years old, and if my sex life were stopping ... If my wife thinks that I no longer desire her or that I am cheating on her ..." . And they enter into this anxiety of success which generates these failures repeatedly .
Erection: what you can do ...
First, during sexual cuddling, avoid penetration for a time, at least one to three weeks. This break allows you to find normal erections without this stress related to penetration. And the man regains confidence in his body, rediscovering the pleasure of sexual games ... including pleasure and orgasms.
Then, it is interesting to help yourself with an erection drug such as Sildenafil (Viagra) , Vardenafil (Levitra) or Tadalafil (Cialis). These drugs improve erections and have a "choke" effect to boost the erectile machine . Some successful reports (with penetration) then restore confidence, preventing stress from manifesting.
Note : If this is not enough, a medical check-up may be necessary. Indeed, stress can be added to other problems having a negative influence on the erection and it is sometimes necessary to detect these other problems to durably treat breakdowns.
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