Escort to dominatrix? Should you hire an Escort for BDSM domination?

Can a kinky escort offer dominatrix services? There’s a chance you have read a lot about BDSM; seen the images which have crept into ladies’ mainstream fashion – spikes and studs embedded in black leather; viewed the mean, moody and magnificent models with their spiky Dominatrix hair and eye makeup; maybe been intrigued by what actually goes on between BDSM-ers. But you’ve never actually……done….it yourself.
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Is a professional dominatrix too much?
You’re ok with the concept of men paying for sexual services – you might even have dabbled in that area yourself – treated yourself to a one-night only experience with a particularly appealing escort – but the thought of visiting a professional dominatrix – handing over all power to a woman whose stock-in-trade is to humiliate and hurt her clients while they are bound helpless and immobile – that is a bridge too far.

But …..what if……that particularly tasty escort was available to experiment in BDSM in a strictly limited, low-key, DefCon 5 sort of way ?

Might your sexual taste-buds be aroused?

Approaching the mission
What would you look for in what is essentially a pretend-dominatrix? How would you decide the best approach to this mission?

Initially you must make sure that you search the websites in your local area for escorts that BDSM services.

A quick search through your local escort directory and escort agency should yield information directly from the description of each individual kinky escort.

However, agencies seem to omit specific fetishes which the girls may be very happy to undertake.

You must take into consideration that a lot of escorts who claim to offer BDSM services may not cater to your very specific sexual fantasy. I think it’s safe to say that all escorts offer a version of domination. This specific type of domination may just be verbal. Alternatively, it may be a little light spanking. Sex toys? Yes. Most escorts have an array of various types of butt plugs, dildos and other toys.

But all this may seem quite vanilla to somebody who has a real need to satisfy a very specific kinky desire.

Communication
There are a few ways you can guarantee that what you are looking for from this particular escort is what you were going to get. The first and most important thing is communication.

Can you talk to the escort? Can you explain to her exactly what you want?. As long as you can communicate well you will be able to ask the girl anything you want. The answer you are going to get is it a yes, no or maybe.

kinky Escort reviews
If you land on a particular escort who you would love to spend time with, then you can often find that on the agency’s or directory’s website where she is listed there are reviews. They may help you understand a little bit more about the previous customers who have visited them and if they are exactly who they say they are and perform the services which they claim to perform.

What’s important to you?
What is the most important attribute of a dominatrix? is it her height? The way she does her hair ? Do you want her to wear fetish clothing ?

This could be your opportunity to ‘construct’ your own fantasy dominatrix – one that would look and dress exactly according to your detailed wishes.

You could also take the opportunity to set out exactly what your limits were – what she could and could not do to you.

She might be pretty and petite – do you want to experience the pain she might dish out?

If this meeting were to play out as envisaged it could be the most magnificent BDSM experience – everything you might have fantasised about.

The vanilla kinky escort who wants to be a dominatrix.
Alternatively, you might go down a different path – and seek an kinky escort who really, really wanted to be a dominatrix – was just using the escort tag as a stepping stone to darker and better things.

There are a handful of professional sex workers who are very keen to ascend to the role of professional dominatrix. One is Mistress Lori who can be found on both an Escort directory and Mistress Directory

She happens to be the perfect illustration of someone with the capability and desire to progress from escort to dominatrix and as such she offers domination from soft to hard in a very sexy and alluring style.

Like many escorts, Lori works from home and has all the right equipment including a fucking bench, plenty of toys and the most important thing: Attitude.

The right temperament
Let’s get down to basics. If you are in search of professional BDSM but would prefer the softer side, and you would like a seamless progression from escort to dominatrix, then the most important criterion to take into account is the attitude of the individual.

Sex is not, at root, physical. Desires, lusts, fetishes all come from our psyche. A naturally dominant and assertive female is the only type of lady who will be able to truly offer you the BDSM fantasy which bridges the gap between vanilla escorting and true BDSM kinky play.

This is not something which an kinky escort can learn overnight. A truly dominant woman has an innate understanding of what it is to dominate. A need to always be in control of a sexual situation. To be the victor (or should that be victrix ?) in a power struggle between dominant and submissive.

I hope this short article gives you an insight into how the journey from vanilla sex-work to BDSM might evolve.

Happy hunting?

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