The Term Marriage Runs In Indonesian Customs

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Called Melalakken Marriage, melalakken itself is taken from the word lalakken, which means run, while saying help that intends to do or do something based on work or desire to be achieved, such as killing, stepping.

Therefore Melalakken Marriage means Marriage marries between a man and a woman, both based on love between people and forced. In this wedding we will find various cases, here the author just divided them into three cases.

First Case:

There are signs that the woman who has been pregnant has been pregnant out of wedlock, therefore they have to be married immediately. This case is usually due to the level of depression and accompanied by fear so that the man and woman take the road to pass.

Second Case:

With the element of fraud, in this case a man intentionally seduces the woman he wants to do, for example inviting the woman to go for a trip to a place at night, here the man takes the opportunity not to take the woman home until tomorrow morning, the two parents of the woman no longer accept their children, so they are forced to marry.

Third Case:

Family disagreement. In this case there are two possibilities that can happen, male parents disagree and or female parents who disagree. But this often applies to the man. For example, the man has asked for the woman he wants to marry, but the woman's parents are refused or not approved. Because the man and the woman love each other, then they are forced to do it.

Even so, the three cases above are not infrequently made by weddings like ordinary marriages.

We are aware of the many shortcomings in this paper, criticism and suggestions for which the purpose of building is highly expected.

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