How people give up?

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Giving up like many people think is not easy, when people give up on relationships, family, marriage, academics and Life in generally and I read their stories I see it's not easy for them to have been giving up.

When people give up it is not because they really wanted to give up however, the surrounding circumstance didn't seem to agree with their intention not to give up, so they just gave up.

Have you tried giving up before, and you see how difficult it was to even give up.

So when we see people give up, don't always be in a hurry to condemn, seek to find out what made them give up.

Try to put yourself in their situation and re-examine yourself if you would not even do worse if you were in their situation.

So do you think I encourage giving up?

Not at all I will not encourage giving up however, I really would want us to see people who give up in a different view, not as weak people because giving up is not just as easy as people make it.

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Deeply and nicely written @prettyjules158. I was in a relationship where I had all my heart in it but the circumstances around it was just unbearable. Sometimes I wish I could make things right other than giving up the one thing I cherish most. I realized later on than somethings just cannot be repaired, giving up on it is the best option. thanks for sharing

I thank God I found this.

You post reminds me of a Poem - Life Continues beautifully written by @ogoowinner two days ago.

The last two stanzas goes like this and I quote

No matter what you face
Be strong to know that..
the world is like a war front
Every man for himself

In the midst of all the sympathy, empathy and pity,
You still remain the pain bearer,
Remember this always
And stay faithful to yourself

Unquote.

Life Continues, so why Give up?

The poem is awesome. It's spirit uplifting, it's soul healing, it's inspirational and it rekindles ones will to go on.

Thanks for sharing this beautiful piece on giving up and I hope viewers can read your piece and the poem from @ogoowinner and be uplifted.

Like John Cena the wrestler would say, Never Give Up.

You had several days without publishing around here, it's good to see a publication of yours again! Yes, at least in my case, I have often decided to give up on many aspects of my life, which at first has been very difficult for me because I would later feel that I didn't give it all up until the end. That I didn't put my best effort into it. Nobody wants to be a conformist, not even a mediocre (in terms of work, studies, or the like) but there comes a time when circumstances do not leave us another way, or rather, they open another door to try it from another perspective.

Giving up doesn't portray weakness rather, a limit overstretched
It is pertinent to strive amidst thoughts and circumstances pulling one to giving up
I missed @prettyjules158 how've you been?

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Thanks so much for this post, let's continue to pray for each other and them help in time of trouble, more importantly encouraging those about to give up to stand up and face the Challenges to over come it.

It's a great pretty that people gives up early in life and time of bad situation, yet it takes more courage and strength support to keep many people, that's their nature, many are born strong enough to over come difficult times, while others are weak to face such time in life, I quite believe giving up is not some easy as ABCD.
Thanks for sharing sharing this to us @prettyjules158

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Giving up definitely isn't as easy as it may seem, for the most part of it, it indicates strength. Its really quite sad to see people give up.

Where have you been Jules?

I always know I'm very weak because I easily give up on things I feel would be stressful to hold on.

Thanks for the encouragement!

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the moral of the story :give Up no join na tay E dey Tay(delay)...E fit dey hard but country man stay on point#Believe

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This is a wonderful post with the title "How People Give Up" I am in the middle point of giving up but has I see ur article I actually relaxed and read it.
I got button up with the point as I quote.

So do you think I encourage giving up?

Not at all I will not encourage giving up however, I really would want us to see people who give up in a different view, not as weak people because giving up >is not just as easy as people make it.

I have taken a bold step to sit back and rearrange my situation and get strong with the words, cose there are worst situations like mine and people still get rid of it.

Thanks so must for today article that as charge my boldness of rearranging my issue @prettyjules158

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Thanks for coming around my blog friend.

resteemed. Giving up is the very last option that someone should ever think. thanks been up for the game @prettyjules158

This is really a good post...Always trust the process and never ever give up

So gorgeous and good character People give up

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Your summary is very interesting